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Going to have to come out, I think

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by Buck, Jun 8, 2011.

  1. Robert

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    Well duh :rolleyes: :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    Then you're bi. :thumbsup:

    Flipp, might be wrong here - but Buck didn't say a vagina was a turn off, just not a turn on. Correct me, if I'm wrong. For some guys, private parts doesn't really come into play. Or it does to some degree. In the bi world, I'd say likes and dislikes ranges just as much as any other sexual preference it just branches across genders. I'm not turned on by a dick or vagina or guy's ass, but everything else about said genders.
     
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    No, that's not it at all. Can natural girls have natural penises? If a legitimate girl had a legitimate piece of junk, and not some horrific surgical creation, that WOULD be ideal.

    @Filip: I fully intend on it, just don't know if it would be a good decision to meet up with her early.

    @Micah: yeah just a little

    @IanGallagher: I believe I did say a vagina is a turn off
     
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    Do 'fake' boobs also turn you off?
     
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    No? It's a little easier to make artificial breasts than artificial sex organs.
     
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    Gay guys dismiss girls altogether other than "just friends." Never met one that wasn't into being intimate with a guy in ways outside of sex. I'd say, what you want as mentioned above - "guys on the side" can work. No reason it couldn't. Guys, including married bi guys, have that set-up.
     
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    So as long as the penis looked perfectly real and the woman had all the other features a woman has then that would be fine with you?
     
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    i'm sorry Haha. i was just trying to help X_X zuri
     
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    Yeah. Lol sounds weird
     
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    Use the internet.

    I think once you get over your prejudice you might find it arousing.

    But obviously its more practical to do what IanGallagher is saying IRL.
     
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    Here comes the next question probably, would a girl with a realistic looking dick be preferred over a dude with a natural dick?

    Or better yet...
    If girls and guys were both born with dicks, which would you go after?

    Basically narrowing it down to that one private part.

    It is possible to have "the best" of both worlds.
     
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    I've seen tranny porn before and the girls' penises look disgusting. That's what I was talking about.

    I would choose the girl over the guy no question.
     
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    Find better porn.

    And if you were watching tranny porn you were watching guys, I'm afraid.
     
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    that's kind of unrealistic on the whole anyway.
     
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    Ditto
     
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    Thats what I said. Doesnt stop it from possibly being the most sexually arousing thing you've ever seen.

    Go, young one! Go out in to the world of internet porn!




    :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: Do it.
     
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    A gay guy? Would have chosen the guy.

    A bi guy leaning straight? Would have chosen the girl. I'd make the same choice.

    Or if Corporal is onto something - you could be poly, basically you could be with a trans too.

    Basically that's why I'm saying you don't come off as a 'gay' guy, totally different preferences. Rather a 'bi' guy - since you just demonstrated your leaning. Or maybe poly.

    Good news: you can have both. Bad news: it might take some time finding a girl who's open to you being bi, but I've heard from many bi guys who have happily open marriage where they can be with both sexually.
     
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    Yes. Hopefully I can work something out. It's just such a strange situation.
     
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    I have faith that you can get though it! =)
     
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    Trust me, it's a wake up to all bi guys since sometimes it has to be or can be negotiable.

    I'm classified as 'alternating,' which basically means sometimes I'm fully gay other times fully straight within the same half hour, which is why I know I'm better fit as polyamorous. Always thought I was monogamous before as to that's how I was raised. That it was and had to be black and white. Gay or straight. Marriages are closed. But, clearing those programmed thoughts from my head? I started discovering a lot of things that I used to dismiss such as polyamory. Personally, I've come to the conclusion that my own personal happiness is worth more than worrying what others think is taboo.

    Also google 'Klein Grid' for a way of looking at sexuality bound to surprise you as well, especially since we're not raised to see it this way. It basically throws a whole lot of dots on a grid showing how diverse one's sexuality is.
     
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