Any 18+ virgin here?

Le sigh. Same here.

I've come... close-ish, but I'd call that more "drunk and messing around" than actual sex.

I'd blame only being out for two years, but it's mostly because I am terrible at meeting and talking to women. -.-

 

*raises hand*

 

Moi.

 

I am. I just can't seem to find a guy. Hmm

 

I've been out for about four and still haven't managed it, so you're not the only one

 

Yep. Been officially out for almost a year, came really close due to temptation, but decided not to. Waiting patiently for the right person. It's a long wait, but one that's worth it.

 

Yeah. I'm 31, so... yeah. I think it's mainly because I didn't really know that I was gay for a long time--also, I am shy.

Virginity is a funny subject for lesbians, because lesbian sex often does not involve penetration, and when other people talk about "losing their virginity," penetration is how that is accomplished. (I am often amused at some of the things that non-lesbians will consider to not be sex.)

But in my case, it doesn't matter how you define it. My inexperience is total.

I suppose it's just as well I never dated or slept with men, though, really.

 

I'm not a virgin anymore, but used to be until two years so I was 21 back then

 

I'm still a virgin, mostly due to lack of opportunity. My personal definition of virginity is that it is lost when someone else causes you to orgasm. I have only ever twice done "anything" with someone, and though they could have resulted in my orgasming, then didn't, largely due to my nervousness due to my inexperience. However, the fact that they could have lead to me orgasming has lead my closest friend, to whom I have told the dirty details of these experiences, to call me a half-virgin, and I can see his reasoning for doing so, so call me an 18+ half-virgin.

 

EC has more virgins than a bible course :eek:

 

That would include me. I've never had a girlfriend or been with someone I really felt something for and so have kept it. I don't have a particular craving for sex as it is. I prefer sex to be between me and someone I am committed to.

I used to be into abstinence for various reasons. I am less rigid about that and while I think waiting is a good thing, if it happens, it happens.

So it's a combo of lack of relationship where I felt that way, and personal choice/preference.

 

not quite..but still waiting..lol. not that fussed to be honset...

 

I didn't lose my virginity with men until 21, and I haven't slept with a woman. So either way, there's nothing wrong with being older. I wore it as a badge of honor for a long time! I would like to have a sexual encounter with a woman, though...it would certainly clarify things for me!

 

I'm still a virgin. Losing it hasn't been a priority for me... Maybe after I make my first million.

 

Yep.

 

I like this guy's attitude.

 

full time student who happens to not go to Arizona State University... so I actually bother to keep up with my studies... so no time to get my cherry popped.

 

Still a virgin here, and honestly I don't really mind being one. It may be cliche but I'd rather wait for someone that actually means something to me to come along and let it happen with them than just do it with any guy.

 

I'm still a virgin at 19 and I don't plan to lose it until I meet the right guy.

 

Well, most of us joined up because we were struggling with our sexualities. That doesn't really translate into lots of gay sex, you know? :icon_wink

I'm still completely virginal at 27, but I'm not overly bothered by it most of the time. I spent 24 years in the closet, so sex wasn't an option back then, and while I don't have impossibly high standards, I do like the idea of doing it with someone I click with on some deeper level. So far, there's no one nearby that would fit that bill...

And I can perfectly wait for when that happens.