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What are big turn OFF's for you?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Owen, Dec 13, 2010.

  1. GoinStag

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    -Drinking
    -Sluts
    -Dirt-asses (My word for guys who don't keep clean)
    -Leather
    -Douche-bags/"Bros"
    -Long hair
    -Dishonesty
    -Too feminine (Sorry, just not my thing)
    -No sense of humor
    -The term "boy-pussy" (As Lex said)
    -Guys who are full of themselves
    -Over-achievers (Sorry but the last thing I need is to feel inferior)
    -Immaturity
     
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    Stupidity, willful ignorance, drama, and big lists of turn-offs. That fourth thing indicates closed-mindedness, which I interpret as a sign of willfull ignorance.

    Past those, it's on a case-by-case basis.
     
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    -Chicks that are underweight- I'd prefer not to have my eye taken out by her collarbone D:
    -Smokers, druggies, alcoholics
    -Too much make-up- unless it's for a good reason, I simply love natural beauties
    -Fake girls with fake tans, bleached hair, and the whole fake package
    -Airheads and just plain ignorant people
    -Someone irresponsible- two irresponsible people won't make for a stable relationship :lol:
    -UGGs- aka FUGGS, I just can't stand them, and when I see someone wearing them, I flee
    -Plastic surgery- just say no ._.
    -Very muscly guys- when I see pictures of them, I recoil in horror
    -Girls who can't make up their mind about their sexuality- from experience with one, it's torture
    -The "ghetto" types that only listen to hip-hop/rap and talk like they're from the "hood"
    -Religion, 'nuff said
     
  4. Lady Gaga

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    I'd like to add one more thing to the list of:

    - Stupidity
    - Willful ignorance
    - Dramatic
    - Big Lists of turn-offs
    - Constantly whines about things not worth whining about.
    - Long hair (said before)
    - Very sexual sense of humor. To the point where every joke they make is something sexual.
    - People who force their religion on me. I have no problem if they're religious. I will even do their religious holidays and practices with them for support. But they must not ask me to convert, or even try to.


    What I added is in italicized. Although, usually everything that is a turn-off for me is a case-by-case basis. Except the last one. That one is always a turn-off, and will probably lead to me breaking up with them if they wouldn't stop it.
     
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    These are just turn off to people in general :eusa_clap
     
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    :Shallow
    :Arrogant
    :Cocky
    :Spoilt
    :If they're too attractive lol
     
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    -Smokers
    -Heavy drinkers (I don't mind if you drink but if you're out getting hammered every weekend that is a nono in my books)
    -Fakes, that is to say someone who pretends to know about something you like just to get you to like them.
     
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    Smokers- if he's my entire 100% package but he's a smoker= automatic no.

    Flamers- sorry, I don't have anything against it, I just don't wanna be around it. It just bugs me a lot.

    Smelling bad- after working out is fine, other than that, take a damn shower

    Tattoos- one or two is fine like the guy I'm seeing right now, but if you have a nice
    body, I'd like to see it, not the crazy murals up your arms and torso.

    Overly cockiness- if you think you're the hottest shit on the planet and one thing goes wrong, your whole day will be ruined and you'll look like a douche.

    Vegetarians- they just bug me and God help you if you try and make me feel guilty for ordering a steak.

    Skinny guys- eat something.

    Pasty and pale guys- go outside.

    Guys that can't keep a conversation going- I've found that USUALLY it's uneducated, less intelligent guys, but that's not always the case. Make sure you can talk about more than just sex or the gym.

    Flakiness- hate that shit. Show up when you say you will. Mean what you say. If your word carries no weight, how can I give a shit about anything you say or do?

    Other stuff. I think I might be picky.
     
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    ^ perfect list... HOWEVER, depending on the smoker.. 2% of the time i MIGHT make an exception.
     
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    lol i used to mess with a guy that dint have a car it was annoying picking him up he spends a few hours here and taking him back home
     
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    Really feminine guys
    Over confidence or cocky guys
    Arrogance
    Emo Hair
    Wonky teeth
     
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    This, and only this.

    Not everyone hates smoking. I've never been a smoker, but I love the lingering smell. It can bring a sense of the person even when he or she isn't there.
     
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    After perusing through the various lists I agree. Biggest turn-off out there has got to be a person who expects so MUCH from a perspective partner. Might I remind people that we are all human and not programmed androids.
     
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    teeth during a blow job
     
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    people who are unnecessarily loud. perhaps it bothers me because I am the polar opposite of loud and obnoxious.
     
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    Smoking/Doing drugs/etc
    Guys who don't look after their health
    Cockiness/Arrogance
    Guys who act overly-masculine: I can't relate to that.
    Ass kissers: I need somebody who's real, and not just to me.
     
  17. LostandFound

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    When I came out a gay friend told me that I'd have to start caring about muscles and getting to the gym. I'm definitely more attracted to guys with less muscle.
     
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    Guys who come on too strong.

    I've had people I hardly know come up and try to kiss my neck and stuff.
    Dude, can I get your name before you try to make out with me?
    Jesus
     
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    Hey, whatever works to kick a bad habit, right?

    hahahahaha not funny.

    Yeah, I'm in the "smoking isn't really sexy" camp.

    Speaking of camp, either extreme of the camp/butch. Being a walking stereotype is not cool.

    Dissing shit i love - you can make fun of me for it to an extent (example, my odd regional accent), but if you've got a problem with something tell me directly and maybe we can work it out

    Short hair. Call me shallow, but on both genders, i want to be able to wrap my fingers around your hair at least a little.

    Oh, and body building type muscles. Ew.
     
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    * I am not a fan of smoking since it makes my nose feel stuffy.
    * I don't like anyone who has a "better than you" attitude.
    * I am not attracted to masculinity. I just can't really relate to it, sorry...
    * Ideally, I don't want a girl to be too much shorter than me since I'm already extremely short (Exactly 5'3") but it's not necessarily a deal-breaker. I also used to say the same thing about girls who are way taller than me, but I have recently taken that one off the list of turn-offs since my current crush is like, 5'9".

    Other than that, there isn't really anything besides the obvious things like bad hygiene.