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Damnit.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by travelinsoul21, Jul 15, 2010.

  1. Damnit all. I was trying to come out to a friend on yahoo in a round-about way and totally just @#$%&*! blew it. I totally blew it. DAMNIT DAMNIT DAMNIT!!!
     
  2. IsItSo

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    Did they figure out that you're gay anyway?
     
  3. No. Or if so she didn't let on
     
  4. Z3ni

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    Calm down. Theres always next time lol .. Relaaaax..
     
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    I did that a few times, too. Very difficult. Just do something nice for yourself tonight; relax .. regroup.

    What you're doing takes a lot of bravery. Do you realize how brave you are for even trying? You will be successful.
     
  6. I would've thought this one would be easy because it's over yahoo....I feel so embarrassed for not being able to spit it out
     
  7. And it would be weird to go back and say "hold on, I wasn't 100% honest with you earlier."
     
  8. Zingerific

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    It might be weird, but not necessarily bad. It would communicate -- more than mere words can -- how very hard it can be to come out, that it is a very difficult thing to do, and sometimes we don't make it the first time.

    But anyway, it's not a race; don't beat yourself up over this, and try again when you're ready.
     
  9. I think i just let the cat outta the bag, so to speak.
     
  10. Okay - she gets it. Mission Successful (!)
     
  11. I love this feeling...knowing that someone knows I'm gay and they couldn't care less, one way or another, they still love me=)
     
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    congratulations.

    Great job!!
     
  13. Congrats

    I wish I was that ready, I'm glad it went well.
     
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    Congrats! Glad that it went well :slight_smile:
     
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    Congrats, glad it went ok.

    And I use to bottle it too over msn and that.