(For Men) Masculine or Feminine?

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  1. Totoro

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    I like regular people. Just about anyone but if i had to pick, masculine. and masculine doesn't mean muscular >_>
     
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    I would say most definitely a mix....You need about 70% masc. with about 30% fem..okay its even hard to put percentages to it..totally all depends on the guy....and really define masculinity...not necessarily all muscles!
     
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    "Masculine". If I was all over feminine, I'd date women.

    That said I like guys that are a certain part in touch with their feminine side.
     
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    true dat!!!
    kinda in between
     
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    I like a mix, but with a bit more masculinity. It kinda depends on the person. Im not really attracted to ultra femme, but watev
     
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    I never really like the femme guys. By ratios... I think m80-f20 is the kinda guy I'd want. I like a guy who's still into the sports thing even if I'm not.
     
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    I'm not sure. I like both masculine and feminine guys. Masculine guys are sexy and feminine guys are cute and make me want to hug them. (*hug*)

    Macho and flamboyant guys are a no. They're the extreme versions of masculinity and femininity.

    I wish I could create my own boyfriend. LOL
     
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    I second that notion!!!

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    Masculinity is pretty low on my list of requirements (or even preferences) for a boyfriend. Given two absolutely identical guys in every way other than masculinity, I'd take the more masculine one. But I'd take a feminine guy with a good sense of humor over a masculine bore any day of the week. :slight_smile:

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  11. azrae1

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    offcourse; we all like guys thats why we are gay,, which means the most dominate thing u woild be attracted to him is that he has a manly look and all, but still i also prefer a mix of both; just an average guy with normal looks and with bit femme is ok with me :slight_smile:, but i would never go out with guys that make it obvious that he is guy like talking in a girl's accent >.>;;
     
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    Entirely depends on the boy. Given that I still find myself falling for straight boys, you might think masculine, but often they're boys with softer features in some regards. I'd definitely say I wouldn't like someone who was too macho. Beyond that, I find the whole discussion here a little strange, as if gay boys can be divided easily between masculine and feminine, and that someone would obviously have strong preferences. I don't think obviously gay and a bit soft means feminine or even effeminate, which is probably a better term. And someone can be flamboyant without being feminine, I think.
     
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    Masculine, definitely. My current is quite like me, we go out, have a few drinks, have a great laugh with the lads, and generally just have good craic.
     
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    it really doesn't matter to me as long as there's a good personality match.
     
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    I like manly men
    Only because I play rough and I don't want to break my boyfriend when we get down to business... Haha
     
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    Yeah, me too! I would have created one on my own! :roflmao:

    Typically, I would love to have the masculine one, but not overly one, of course. A bit of feminine will give no problem to me. :grin:
     
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    None of the extremes please. If I wanted extreme feminism, I would have gone with a girl. On the other hand, extreme masculinity.... I would rather date a bear. (No, not that kind of bear, an actual bear.)
     
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    Dang it! I was so ready to say it, too... :frowning2:
    But yeah, it doesn't really matter to me. It's more about the person in my opinion.
     
  19. leonardo1145

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    65% masculine 35% feminine, for example I can listen to Britney with him but then we can switch it up and listen to The Clash. And he has to have some sort of hair on his body even if its just on his arms because unless he's a swimmer I hate completely shaven men. Idk it makes me feel weird.
     
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    I prefer more masculine guys