If someone doesn't KISS ME within the next year I gonna....

I'm kind of in the same boat - 19, been out for a few years, and nothing significant. I've definitely considered the random thing - the only thing that's stopped me hooking up with someone I've found online has been the fact that I thought even they would reject me - but it really isn't a good idea. Your time will come And it'll be worth the wait.

 

Ok I understand how frustrated it can be, but take it from my experience a random kiss is not that good, whereas a kiss, when it really does mean something, when it happens at the right moment with the right person, can be the most mooving thing ever.
I especially remember my first kiss a guy I was maddly in love with, it had been one of the most intense moment in my all life. What can make a kiss something fabulous is not the kiss in itself, but that sort of magic that happens sometimes when there is a special chemistry between two persons. This is something a random kiss will never give you.

 

Well, if it is any consolation I'm 25 and never been kissed. Let alone anything else my dirty mind comes up with.

 

I guess the question for all of those above is, what are you doing to realize your goal? Are you getting out there and meeting people? Have you joined any organizations or done any volunteer work to broaden your circle? If you are in school, have you looked into whether there is a GSA? The more people you meet, the better your chances of meeting the right person.

 

I'm the same boat,,, but

I'm turning 18 like in a month or so, and I haven't had a kiss. But it makes me feel like I have an amazing gift/aura that will be give like the holy grail of all time.

(i exaggerate)

but I want love, but I don't want to give away that window of my heart to anyone... i want it to be like two world colliding. Like its sometime I waited my whole life for kind of feeling, and want to gain something beyond love from this kiss....

so I want a bf, but I am not afraid of not having one

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yesterday

i would had said, i want a boyfriend boo hoo, but i think i am the biggest gift to planet Earth.

shit my self esteem is too high right now... have to bring it down a knotch or two for nasa.

 

I'll kiss you! then again i'm a male so i don't think i'm your target...

 

kissing isn't actually that great. at least, not kissing someone you don't like. i thought it'd be better from what i'd heard. but eleanor is TOTALLY right (odd fact: i'm eleanor too!!! lol) but wait until you've found someone. thats what i'm gonna do...

 

Hey dont worry although I know its hard, I was 26 before I had my first kiss but it was worth the wait, you'll get there

 

oh come on now, would you REALLY want your first ever kiss to be with a boy?

 

im in the same boat, but ive decided to make my first count. but i can definitly feel the frustration of feeling like ITS ABOUT DAMN TIME I GET A KISS!

:roflmao:

only in a place like this will this exist :lol:

 

I agree with that statement. I too decided that it would be better to make mine count. And with what someone above said about joining LGBT organisations and the like. I have contemplated it. But I really need to work on my self esteem issues first before I can even see myself being able to walk into a place along those lines.