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girly lesbian?

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by marri, May 5, 2009.

  1. marri

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    this isn't really support and advice, I'm just curious and I didn't know where to ask,how do you girls feel about girly lesbians?
     
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    Everyone has different preferences, but I like them. I'm not really preferential to butchy, androgenous or feminine girls - I like all of them. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    It doesn't really matter to me, it's all about attitude for first impressions, not style persay.
     
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    I like them too, I guess I've just got a childish concern that girls aren't going to know I like girls
     
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    Loves 'em! <3

    Well, maybe not really high-maintenance type girly girls, but I'm all for girls that like frilly things. I like frilly things too, I just look so bad in them, haha!

    But hey, it ain't really what you wear, imo. If you're awesome, you're awesome.

    ... Though I do have a major, major weakness for girls in suits, too. >.>
     
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    I personally like me some butch lesbians because i know me and a butch lesbian would paint the town rainbow together :slight_smile:

    But i like "lipstick lesbians" too. I dont really care too much to be honest, its just something about a butch lesbian that screams "Id make good friends with Greggers" haha.

    Ill take a lesbian over a straight girl, butch or lipstick or otherwise, any day of the week though!
     
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    Girly lesbians what's not to like. I like girls it doesnt matter to me if they are girly or not.

    GhostDog your not the only one who has a weakness for girls in suits I find suits pretty sweet.
     
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    Sure. I like femme girls, probably a bit more than more butch girls.
     
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    Re: girly lesbian?j

    I likes me some girly girls but I also like 'em to be able to get down and dirty too! Haha :icon_wink
     
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    I'd probably lean towards androgynous a bit. Wouldn't reject girly though. :slight_smile:

    Greggers, I'm not butch, but I'd totally paint the town rainbowy with you. After all, you do crap diamonds right? Then I could give them to a pretty girl.
     
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    I wish I was really good friends with a girly lesbian, I would totally pretend to be a couple with her.
     
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    hard to say. My preference leans more to the androdgynous looking girl, or tomboyish, but really, it all depends and changes all the time xD
     
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    I like lesbians who are girly, who are not girly ect. I like them all, it is the personality that really matters! ^_^ And how good I can feel with the person.
     
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    Let's go,Greggers! I'm the butchy girl you seek to paint the town in rainbow!
    Actually,I guess people would think I was a butch,however,I'm more on the tomboyish side.
    I'm just very casual. I do like those girly-girls,though!
     
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    yays :slight_smile:, i'm not much into the butch type anyway.
     
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    I would paint the town rainbow with you too... if you let me...

    Oh, and I like everyone by the way : girly girls, butchy girls, fem boys, butch boys, and all the one stuck in the middle too. I like the rainbow with all its colors, I just wish I'll find a way to be a part of it :confused:
     
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    I am super femme, and it has been a surprise to EVERYONE that I have come out to that I am gay. I would totally pretend to be a couple with ya! ha ha

    Anyway, I am attracted to all girls, but I tend to date more butchy girls. I definately like to be the more femme one in the relationship, but would not turn away a femme girl with an awesome personality!
     
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    i love me some butchies<333

    i dont even have girly straight friends.
     
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    I think I just meet someone and fall for their personality, looks arent as important. I think the fact that there is such diversity on this site, proves that the stereotypical butch lesbian is just a flavour in the lesbo spectrum. If we were all ice-cream flavours I'd say femmes would be chocolate and butches would be vanilla....everyone has a favourite but we pretty much like both. Of course then there are a million and one other flavours, and all of us are different. I think I'd be bright green pistachio...not everyone likes it, because its so bright and unusual....but those that like it are never disappointed!
     
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    Aw, that's an awesome metaphor, Silas. :grin:

    ... Ima borrow that sometime.