Last night I was talking to a friend on MSN whom I've dated before (and more too) and he had told me he had met this really nice guy who had fallen in love with him and he wanted him to be his boyfriend. For some reason it didn't work out (he told me but it's really complicated and not important for this post) and now he wants to date me again (although we were never actually boyfriends). This really shocked me because less than two weeks ago we agreed that we would not date because even though we have some feelings for each other its not that much. When I asked him if we were boyfriends now he answered yes and I got even more confused. The thing was I had talked to several people whom I met via dating sites that I could meet up with them again because nothing was gonna happn between me and the other guy. I really don't know if this all makes sence but I can really use some advice on what to do now...:help:
If your feelings are not that strong for this boy then don't get tied down in an exclusive relationship. Just keep him as a friend and keep meeting people from the dating sites until you find someone you really do feel for.
So Mr Perfect didn't work out, and you get to be the consolation prize? Sounds like a wonderful basis for a relationship. Honestly, he doesn't sound worth your time. Keep him as a friend (or even a friend with benefits, if you can do that sort of thing), but keep looking elsewhere. Lex
If there is one thing certain about relationships, it's that to make it work, you need two people. You friend can't decide by himself that he is your boyfriend. You've got your word to say about it. You are not his boyfriend until you decided to be so. I would had that your friend doesn't probably want dating you for the good reason (you date someone because you like him, not because you have been turned of by someone else), and you don't sound to really want to date him either. I'd say, remain friends, and find someone you really want to date (but, it is only my opinion). Take care, Eleanor
Hmm. The way you describe it, you are his #2, and he is not your #1. Enough said. Go find your number 1.
For someone to come out and say right away that he wants to be with you because person A didn't work out seems like its setting the relationship to be doomed.