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Bad Sex

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by littledinosaurs, Jan 27, 2009.

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Would You Marry Someone If The Sex Was Infixably Bad?

  1. Yes

    35 vote(s)
    45.5%
  2. No

    42 vote(s)
    54.5%
  1. missmelancholy

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    I most certainly would not. If we are in love, the sexual chemistry should be great. Love is about all parts of a relationship. If you don't plan on sexing up your partner, that is something called a FRIENDSHIP.
     
  2. joss22

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    I would, I think there is more to love than sex
     
  3. littledinosaurs

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    Word :slight_smile:
     
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    i don't know because i have never been in a relationship....and i just realized how lonely i am. :icon_sad:
     
  5. littledinosaurs

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    aweee (*hug*)
     
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    If i loved him then yes i would!!!
     
  7. Numfarh

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    I wouldn't marry them.
    Sex is a VERY important part of every relationship. It's a thing that can break you up or bring you closer together.

    That being said, I can't believe no one here thinks they'll be having sex when they are "old". When I'm sagging around the edges, I still plan on doing the deed.
     
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    Don't think so. That would feel weird, wouldn't it?
     
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    I don't think I could be in a relationship without having sex/having really bad sex...I mean, sex is not the only part of a relationship, but I think it should be an important part. As others have said, a relationship without sex, is more just like a friendship
     
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    Yeah I would. As long as I love the person.
     
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    I don't think I could, I think that it would be setting us up for failure because cheating would be more tempting.
     
  12. I think the Yes's can say the same thing about the No's :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
    At least, this Yes can :slight_smile:
     
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    Last minute thought before I go to bed, it is not saying no sex, just infixably bad sex, you will still have passionate moments, and you will still have sex, it just won't be very good...and if you love someone, shouldn't you be able to accept that they are bad in bed?
     
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    Ok.... so I said NO....


    Now let me go on a bit... The reason I said no is because sex... for me... is tied so closely with how much I like someone. I mean if I like someone a lot then the sex will/should be EFFEN FANTASTIC.... but if the sex isn't then maybe we should be just friends...
     
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    Married couples who has HOT sex will have to deal with cheating there and there.
    Married couples who has BAD sex will have to deal with cheating all the time.
    If so that's kinda takes away half of the reason why you got married lol

    The Reasons Why You Get Married.

    1. Love 30%
    2. Sex 30%
    3. Others 40%

    You have to admit sex is a important matters when it comes to relationships.
     
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    Thats what I thought.
     
  17. GunStarre

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    I would.
    Romantic relationship is what I want more anyways. I don't need physical intimacy to be close to someone. As long as I know I love him, then I don't really care if we're bad at it; besides, it doesn't mean we're going to stop having sex. We'll just be optimistic and keep doing it until we get used to it and then it'll be good sex :slight_smile:
     
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    at the end of they day I think it does matter. and that's not shallow it's just realistic
     
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    Dave, we need to talk about your 'little problem'..

    I hate to do this but I think we should see other people.

    :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    If I'm not going to have sex with them, they can be my best friend :grin: