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my first person

Discussion in 'Coming Out Stories' started by jasen, Jan 22, 2009.

  1. jasen

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    Two days ago I started asking questions to my best friend. Like can I trust you and all that. So we started an deep conversation and I told her that I had a something really important to tell her. She was like you know you can trust me I would never tell anyone. I started dropping hints and she couldn't catch on so I told her I was going to bed. The next day after school I started to talk to her and she was like you know you can tell me anything and I was like I know. Then I said I that feel sick and I asked her to give me a exact time to tell her and she said 9:45 and I said ok. So as 9:30 came around I started talking to her again then we were talking and she was like you can trust me so real fast without even thinkig I sent I am gay. She didnt respond for like five min so I thought she didnt want to talk to me anymore. But I got the message that dosent change anything.and she kept sending ones like that then I finally responded and we talked till midnight. Then today at school she was mad because I wasn't talking and she was like I think it is really cool and I feel special too.

    So that is how my comming out went
     
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    I am guessing that this was done over the internet, some sort of IM? If so, it seems like you handled it really well, but she probably has loads of questions that she wants to ask you in person. Congratulations in fact, you actually acted on your urges, that is more than I can say about myself :wink:
     
  3. BitterEdge

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    that seems like a good first coming out jasen, I'm proud you made that first step. Its ones like that, that made me decide to come out to ALL my close friends and any new people I meet usually find out when I talk to my bf or about him.
     
  4. Johnny123

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    ahh, well done, jasen. i'm glad your friend is happy with it.
     
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    Congrats! That's great!
     
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    Congratulations Jasen!!!! :slight_smile:
     
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    That's an excellent first coming out! Glad it went so well. Congratulations!!
     
  8. Urman

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    congrats
     
  9. gaius

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    well done mate!
     
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    The first time is often the hardest. I'm glad yours went well. Congratulations!
     
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    Heh, that sucks eh? Happened to me too (turned out his mom came in.) I decided to avoid coming out on messenger after though. :wink:

    Good to hear this worked out for ya man! Congrats on your first. Keep it up!
     
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    thats a very good start, best of luck!!
     
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    The first one is always hard and well done for comming out.
     
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    Congrats. I'm glad it went so well for you.
     
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    well done, that was alot better than my first coming out, I told my best friend when we were at school in the locker room then ran away!
     
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    Congratulations! Glad that it went well for you. You've got a great friend there!
     
  17. spazz33

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    I agree with everyone above! CONGRATS!!