Would you come out??

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  1. littledinosaurs

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    THAT WAS ME and i did date him.
     
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    i definitely would, no question.
     
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    Through out history there have been occasions where the word fuck would have been appropriate.

    What the fuck was that. ~The mayor of Hiroshima
    I need this parade like I need a fucking hole in my head. ~ John F. Kennedy
    You want WHAT on the fucking ceiling? ~ Michaelangelo
    Where the fuck are we now ? ~ Christopher Columbus
    Fuck yeah! ~ My response to the OP.
     
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    fuck yea!!!
     
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    Change the he to a she...I'm all over it! lol!
     
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    I think that if he got a lot of crap after he came out, I would have to think twice about coming out myself, but I'm pretty sure I'd befriend him and get to know him and then come out if I still liked him and he still liked me.
     
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    In a New York minute! Obviously I would spend time with him and see how that goes before making any rash physical or emotional decisions.
     
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    I don't know. I wanna say yes but the situation has to be he is going to be with me for a long time lol
     
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    I would in a heartbeat, but only if the relationship would be worth it. I'm not gonna only date him for like 2 weeks or something. It has to be meaningful.
     
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    I would date him, but i won't come out (if i were in some less homophobic country i would come out, but in Latvia, huh, things are not so good in here.)
     
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    Another question.....Would you regret coming out if it's over between you two???
     
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    Ha! I've been in this situation but I was the one that came and said I had a crush.
     
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    No now but when I was younger I would have probably said yes
     
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    then what happened?, did he come out to date you?
     
  15. Sure, although I don't see why two people can't date and just not announce it to everyone.
     
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    I've already thought about this even though it will never happen to me, I wouldn't come out the traditionally way, I'd tell him and become his boyfriend then doing ALOT of public display of affection and as for my parents I would just bring him home and say "This is my boyfriend" then leave quickly and go out on a date then I wouldn't have to go through the whole "I'm Gay" awkward situation
     
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    He pretty much said he was str8. He watched me be terrorized by people at school and said nothing when I got kicked out for being gay so.....yea but honestly I don't really blame him. The school we went to was quite harsh.
     
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    I don't.
     
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    YEAAH!!!! :grin:

    btw... how did u come up with this scenario if you weren't in it??? just wondering.
     
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    in theory i suppose i would!