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How Was 2008 For You?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Martin, Dec 25, 2008.

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How was 2008 for you?

  1. 1 - Worst Year Ever

    6.2%
  2. 2

    2.7%
  3. 3

    12.4%
  4. 4

    7.1%
  5. 5 - Average/Normal

    11.5%
  6. 6

    9.7%
  7. 7

    18.6%
  8. 8

    15.9%
  9. 9

    5.3%
  10. 10 - Best Year Ever

    10.6%
  1. Shebbs

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Eh, there wasn't anything really.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Just hung around. Tried to hang out with friends that aren't really friends. The end of July and the beginning of August was the bes though with the carnival with Kayla and Water park with Hilary.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    Good for the most part. I'm with James. :slight_smile:

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    Um... just the one when my cousin got killed and I know the person who did it.

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Can't decide.

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Can't decide.

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Wanted to lose weight. <_< Didn't stick to it. Other then one week where I lost like 15 lbs and I have no idea why.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Nothing really. Just really surprised myself I have been able to keep a relationship this long

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    Myself. For being able to be the better person in most situations.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Not really. Just stuff I already knew. Has to do with promises and trust.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    I don't wanna mention it here.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    I don't wanna mention it here.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    I have gained the "less shy" qualification. If that counts... :confused:

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Canada day :slight_smile: With Kayla, Logan, and some random Matt guy. Lmao.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    XD My life is full of stupid incidents. Like the time I didn't know where the "cliff" ended and I fell off it into a sand dune. Lmao.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My relationship with my parents, friends, and James.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    I was with Family for Christmas. New years eve i'm having a "party" and New Years day i'll be with my family.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    To start going to the gym again. And to not trust people as easily. And learn to say no.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    4. For reasons I do not want to talk about that were bad on my part.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    YES! I love EC. <3 :]
     
  2. Nodnarb

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Starting to come out.

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Not a whole lot. Some college visits were the big things, I guess.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?

    Sadly, there were none.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?

    The US Presidential election.

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Can't pick out any one in particular.

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    ^Same

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    I think mine were to lose wieght and come out to my family and close friends. I did lose weight, and I came out to my family, but not my friends.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?


    Coming out to my parents.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    Hmm....probably two of my uncles; one for surviving cancer and kidney disease, one for donating his kidney to the other.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Not really...Some were re-emphasized, maybe....

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?

    Coming out.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    Yeah. I went on a 'date' with a girl from Japan. Definately never thought I'd do that.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    I don't know? Damn Brits:wink:

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    I dunno....meeting my cousin's gf put me in a good mood for weeks...Also, the night of Obama's victory in the Iowa caucuses and his election on November 4th. Those were exciting days.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    Sorry, no drunk stories; I don't drink. But...the stupidest thing I can think of was when I almost got a friend and I lost....In a town both of us know perfectly well. Never rely on me for directions.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    My family.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Not a lot. Spending time with family most of the time.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?

    Yes, the big thing I want to change is that I want to be out to everyone.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    8. It was a good year, did a lot of new things, met a lot of new people, got closer to some people, and started coming out.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Hopefully. But I'll be at college, so I have no idea how much time I'll have to spend here.
     
  3. musicgirl112233

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    I came out to my friends. I started high school.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    4-H things, band camp, sleep.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    My relationships this year sucked. I had a boyfriend for a week, and I had a girlfriend for 2 weeks.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?

    Obama becoming pesident.
    5. Favourite song from the year?

    I've had a lot.
    6. Favourite artist this year?

    The Gossip
    The Cliks
    Evanescence
    Envy On The Coast

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    no
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Our band got 1st at state.
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    All the famous people who come out.
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    I don't thinks so.
    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    My grandpa died on my b-day. I lost my best friend.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Yes. I played a solo in front of my whole band class.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    um no

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    Getting my first girlfriend.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    I don't have one...Man I'm boring

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    The people on EC, and good firends.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Practice for band

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    I have a new years resolution not to be so shy and to make new friends.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    5
    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Yes!
     
  4. starfish

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    I moved from Dallas to Austin. The change has done me a lot of good. I was not at all happy in Dallas.

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Worked my ass off. I was working on a poorly managed time critical project a work. I had about 2 straight months of 70+ hour weeks with several 80+ hour weeks.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?

    There were none.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?

    I watched the Senate vote of the bank bailout on CSPAN. I will never forget that. It was the most interesting and sicking thing I have ever seen.

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    I'm not up on modern music. How ever my theme song for the year was Pink Floyd's "Lost for Words"

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    N/A

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    Just to complete my degree, which I did.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    I graduated college with a Bachelors of Science in Software Engineering.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    I have started learning how to deal with the corporate world.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?

    Yes, I started the coming out process. I came out to my self in early November and for the first time in a long time I actually look forward to the future.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    I went into a gay sex shop. That was a trip, and I enjoyed it. I never imagined I would ever set foot in a place like that.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    Yes I got a B.S. in Software Engineering.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    The day I found out my degree was conferred and that college was finally behind me.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    I blew my top and threatened to punch someone at work.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    That I am gay. It may be different but it is just so awesome.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Spending time with family and installing new shocks on my car.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?

    Yes, how ever I am switching to 3,6,12 month plan system. The overall theme is to take control of my life and to get what I want. I am entering a new phase of my life, which I have titled "Coming back to life" after the Pink Floyd song.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    I rate it a 5. It has been a busy year with lots of changes and at one point I was not sure I would make it.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    I hope so. I still have a long way to go and I think I have a lot to contribute to the community.
     
  5. crimsonarcher

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    The biggest change in your life this year?
    More comfortable with family and others after coming out!

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    I went to a retreat in Redding

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    Ok, I guess

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    Prop 8 passed....damn it!

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Delta Goodrem's "In this Life", Dixie Chicks' "Not ready to make nice" and Rihanna's
    "umbrella".


    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Do As Infinity, Utada, Ayumi, Dixie Chicks, Delta Goddrem, Murder By Death, and others.

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Don't remember, unfortunately

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)? My prop 8 protest and coming out to Mom!

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    Mom, Jon, Brenda, Miguel, Cristina, and others

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Fathers are gonna be there forever, whether they believe ins ame-sex marriage or not.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    The summer retreat, in which I heard many sad stories, and where I told my own coming out story to 100+ people.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Protest in front of people and be in the Crucible and audition for Earnest In Love!

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    More acting experience!

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Coming out to a certain guy and my birthday and august 26th.

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Made goofy, odd youtube videos!

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My life, my music, my parents, my stories.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Just live my life.

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    come out to more friends, amke more friends, and be the best Perkins I could be!

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    About a 10.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    oh, GOD yes!
    :grin:
     
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  6. Aries

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    I fell out of love with my long time high school sweet heart and fell in love with the most amazing guy anyone could ask for.

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Went to the beach a lot and hung out with my man. I met some new friends and I was the Maid of Honor in my best friends wedding.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    One ended and another began, I am very happy in my relationship with my current boyfriend right now.

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    Probably the Election with Obama. GO OBAMA!!!

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Idk lol

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Um...

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I don't believe I made a resolution this past year but I am definately making a few for this coming year to work on.

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    I am proud that I moved on from my ex boyfriend, that was a very unhealthy relationship. I am also proud I have made so many new friends this year, I can finally do things I have been wanting to do and be myself.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    I am most proud of my boyfriend, he is finally starting to blossom into the person he has always wanted to be and I am glad I get to see it and experience it with him.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    No but a few years ago I did, it was a nightmare in the process but now that I know what I know, I am a much better person.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    Life changing... Well I might have begun my life with my life partner, we shall see what the future holds :slight_smile:

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Actually yes, I never thought I would be able to get over my first love, my high school sweet heart... but I did and I am glad I did :slight_smile:

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Huh??

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    The time I spent with my friends and family, those are always the happies (and saddest but you know what I mean lol)

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    I guess when I got drunk for my boyfriends 21st birthday, it was controlled and responsible but there was some pretty funny shit going on that night lol

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My boyfriend. I love him to death. My friends. I would never be the person I am without them. My family. I am thankful for them loving me for who I am and ignore almost every flaw lol.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    For Christmas my boyfriend and I went to Las Vegas to visit some of my family and friends. And for new years of course there is going to be a party where me and some of my friends get drunk and do stupid stuff for the new year... ugh and then I am going to the Rose Parade with my boyfriend and his family. fun fun fun!

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Yes. I hope to fully strengthen my legs so I can do the things I love again. I also hope to finally move out and get my own place, possibly with my boyfriend and/or a couple of friends.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    Seven.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Most likely.
     
  7. rocking23

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Kinda Cliché, but coming out to a few people​

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Went to Spain and Africa​

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    Disappointingly no ​

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    Prop 8​

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Jonas Brothers - Burnin' Up​

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Jonas Brothers​

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I never make resolutions​

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Figuring out my sexuality and coming to terms with it - what an answer for a site like this :lol:​

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    Nick Jonas - For being so hott​

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    None that I can recall​

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?

    Hmm.. Can't think of any​

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Came out to my Crush and Best friend at the same time​

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    My Spanish is become SO much better​

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    There are too many​

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    I don't drink.​

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My famjam and the few friends I can trust​

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Watch Dick Clark's Rockin' New Years Eve with ryan seacrest and Watch the Jonas Brothers preform on the show​

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Refer to Question 7​

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    8​

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I hope so​
     
  8. Seanboy23

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Coming out. Easily the biggest change. I is a Homo!! :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:ride:

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    I worked my ass off at my new job (out of sales and into tech, yay!!), and got to go to my first Pride... in San Francisco! Nothing like starting off big...

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    All over the place! This year saw everything from, well, "sowing my oats" in some um, random ways (I've been a bad boy!), to casual dating, to meeting my boyfriend and moving in together. :grin:

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    The forward momentum of humanity with the Obama presidential win. The backward momentum of humanity with the failure of Prop 8 and the increased hatred of a minority group.

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    "Let Me Think About It" by Ida Corr (it was my coming out song!)

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Madonna. 'Cuz now I understand why I like her so much... :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Never make resolutions. No no no!

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Decisions I've made that for some strange reason seem to actually be improving my life. I must be on a roll or something...

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    Gloria Allred, Gavin Newsom, and everyone else with access to the masses who stand up against bigotry and religion-fueled hatred. Special notice goes to Keith Olberman for the most amazing public opinion about us queers that I think any straight man could give.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Yes, that some things about a person you just CANNOT change. And that unfortunately there IS a such thing as "the one that got away".

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    Two: coming out, and finding that I have a passion for activism and standing up for my beliefs.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Well, yes. And they have to do with my answer to question #3, so I really shouldn't mention anything here.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Sorta. Learning a new profession. And I'm talking about WORK, yo! :thumbsup: :eek:

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    All the good times with all the crazy friends I've made. I LOVE my community!

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Too many to mention, and yes they involve alcohol. (But since I never drank before, said incidents have helped me learn and know my limits. So maybe they're "stupid smart" incidents?!?!

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    All my friends, and my sons. My health and the fact that I look so much younger than I am! It's my secret weapon, lol...

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Probably out to Babylon, oops, I meant Badlands, and other spots on Liberty Avenue, oops! I meant K Street. :roflmao:

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Nope. The only one I would even think about would be to work it out at the gym, but I already do that.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    A big fat TEN.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I sure hope so, I heart you guys!
     
  9. rosiejuly3

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Coming out to my friends and my parents :slight_smile:
    2. What did you do over the summer?
    uhh school bc I go to year around
    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    It was up and down. overall it was good
    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    prop 8, britney spears going nuts, Obama being elected :grin:
    5. Favourite song from the year?
    hmm I don't really have one but maybe Tied Together with a Smile by Taylor Swift
    6. Favourite artist this year?
    maybe Paramore or Tokio Hotel
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I can't remember them:rolleyes:
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    having the courage to come out to everyone
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    my gf Rachel. her brother died this year, her old bestfriend who she liked started
    hating her, and a whole bunch of other stuff..
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    yeah I did. The beginning of the year was hell
    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    Kinda.. I really learned how to stick up for myself
    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    Yes and I wish I didn't do it
    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    haha does finishing 7th grade count?
    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    my first kiss
    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    hmm I can't really think of anything
    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    my friends, my awesome parents, just life in general
    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    xmas I went to my uncles and aunts
    new years I'm having a little party/sleepover with some friends and my gf :grin:
    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    Lets see...
    love myself as I am
    straight A's
    don't hold back on anything
    enjoy life
    be me
    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    maybe a 7. I went through some really hard stuff, but in the end it really made me stronger.
    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I hope so but then I'm gonna be in highschool so I have no clue..
     
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  10. dictionary

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Probs getting a job

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Work

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?

    N/A

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?

    PM Kevin Rudd's Apology

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    Don't realy have one

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    Same

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    Nope

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Improved my school reults

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    Julia Gillard: Acting Prime Minister... Of My Heart <3

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Nope

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?

    Nope

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    Break a Bone

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    Not realy finished year 10

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    Ummmm.. Lots of them.....

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    Meeting the manager at the store i got a job at...

    Person 1: This is the store manager
    Manager: How are you
    Me: Nice

    (I was expecting the manager to say Nice to meet you, and i was going to reply with nice to meat you too)

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    Ummm.... Lots of things...

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Relaxing, working, friends ect holiday stuff

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?

    Nope but i want to do realy good at school

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    8 ish

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Mabyee
     
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  11. pirateninja

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?

    Well, I turned 18, which means I no longer go into bars furiously pleading with the powers that be that I don't get IDed. Plus, I came out to a couple of grandparents, as well as unwittingly being outed to the whole Mom's side of the family by an Aunt who we're no longer on speaking terms with (and happily barely anyone else is either :grin:). And I became first a Chat Mod, and then upgraded to a Forum Mod on here! (I still don't know just why, as even Paul himself has said, I'm far from eligible for Responsible Person of the Year Award. :roflmao:slight_smile:

    2. What did you do over the summer?

    Got stinkingly drunk as a Skunk in France. And amazingly passed my AS Levels. And then got stinkingly drunk after that as well.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?

    Offline, a little fumble here and there, but hardly anything amounting to even what people might call a relationship, not even a fully fledged fling. Online though, I got married! (!)

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?

    No on 8 - I can't remember feeling angrier at Mormons. Before, I just kinda considered them a little weird, with far too many children but overall harmless. How wrong I was.

    5. Favourite song from the year?

    "I'm not your Fwiend, Buddeh!" Remix - That particular South Park episode had me howling with laughter. The fanmade remix quickly became my ringtone and always puts a smile on my face when it comes up on iPod shuffle.

    6. Favourite artist this year?

    Overall artist this year has to beeeee... Korpiklaani. Me and a friend went to see them in concert not too long ago, and we had the time of our lives :grin:

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?

    Get the grades needed to go to Uni. And so far, things are looking good :thumbsup:

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?

    Getting an offer from Northampton University. I know, I know, it's not a Red brick Uni, it's not the best around, but they actually want me at their Uni, and at the end of the day, if I manage to walk out of Uni with a good degree; a degree is a degree, whatever Uni it is.

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?

    My sister; she's actually beginning to come round to the idea of me being gay, she even allowed herself to say "Civil Partnership" the other week. It may not sound like much, but if you knew my stubborn homophobe of a sister, you'd be impressed too.

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?

    Even relatives that you thought you knew can stab both you and your Mother in the back. And through backstabbing and snide behaviour, you manage to alienate yourself from all the sane people around you. And even though some people will quite easily stab you in the back, there are others who will turn away from them and surprise you by taking your side.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?

    Honestly? Not really, as explained above, I turned 18 recently, which is great. I'm applying for Uni, which is tiring, but nothing I wasn't expecting. There was the whole thing with my aunt (the backstabbing incident as explained in the last question) which really fucked me and mom up for a few weeks as said bitch of an aunt caused havoc by outing me rather snidely to every family member, but it all worked out okay, with an uncle coming forward and giving me a pat on the back, and nobody talking to my aunt anymore. But no, nothing that's REALLY changed anything in my life. We moved in my mom's boyfriend's cat in Easter, so the real difference this year is having two cats in the house instead of one.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?

    Again, not really. Everything seems rather typically me.

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?

    5 AS - Levels :grin:

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?

    Christmas was exceptionally good this year. A great morning with parents and parents' partners, a nice few presents, a spectacular christmas dinner, a relaxing Christmas evening, and most specifically, no Christmas fallouts! :grin:

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?

    Drinking 3 lots of tequilas at my birthday, alongside a few pints of strongbow, a load of Malibu and Gin, and too many alcopops, and then puking spectacularly down my friend's leg. And then having to attend the last day of school with World's Greatest Hangover.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?

    CLICHE ALERT! Friends and Family, of course :grin: EC included in those two.

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    Have a big party, then attempt to take my Driving Theory test on the 2nd (ulp!)

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?

    I resolute to keep my room clean, to try and not let things bug me so much and to start reading some more classic books. Except Jane Austen; reading her stuff makes me want to gouge my eyes out with screwdrivers.

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?

    Meh, it's been a good run with a few downs, mostly pretty goo though, I'd say a 7.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?

    Hopefully. I've stuck around here for one year, I want to try and reach a second. :grin:
     
  12. Helen

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    Coming to EC. I'm not kidding, this place has totally changed my life, and my outlook on said life. :slight_smile:

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Went back home to the UK, as per usual, met up with various friends, went to Scotland for a bit to climb with my family, and I went to Cyprus with Rosina Chicita at the end of it.

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    Non-existent :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    Baby P's trial, I didn't know anything about the case until I heard about it then.

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Five Years Time, by Noah and the Whale. It's my new happy song ^_^
    6. Favourite artist this year?

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    Not that I can distinctly remember, I'm afraid :frowning2:

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Probably when I got a merit in my grade 5 oboe exam :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: As well as the A* in my French GCSE :grin:
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    A friend of mine who has worked tirelessly to make his name known. He's now a youtube celebrity, and more and more people are getting into his music every day. He's amazing :slight_smile: (and yes, I am completely in love with him XD)

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    Yeah, I had to learn that people leave sometimes, and that it's not purposefully done to make my life miserable, it's just one of those things. I also learned that there are so many different possibilities of things that could happen, and there's no point wallowing in despair over something that could've happened but didn't; I should just carry on.

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    I found out that I had an identical twin sister, but she died ten weeks before we were due to be born. As I always used to go on about twins when I was little, and have imaginary twin sisters and everything, I've very recently become much more spiritual, and am more open to the concept of my sister's spirit still being near me.

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    I made out with someone on a deckchair for an hour and a bit. I honestly never thought I'd do that. I also paraglided XD

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    GCSEs in French and Science, as well as grade 5 oboe and grade 7 piano.

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Walking around London with a truly...perfect, young gentleman. Previously mentioned in this survey. :slight_smile:
    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    Probably getting drunk at my school's winter social and making out with a guy I'd just met, for everyone to see XD
    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My friends, EC (particularly Ben, Rosina, Lucy, Tyler and Sean, but there are loads of other people who I love here ^_^) and non-EC.
    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    I just hope that I can gain a bit more self-confidence this year, and can see myself in a more complimenting light. I also hope that my friends this year remain my friends, so I'm making a resolution to be much more agreeable this year, as well as more approachable and less intimidating. XD

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    I'll be honest, I've had better years. This year's taught me what it's like to have things genuinely not go my way, and that I need to learn to do things for myself. It was hard a lot of the time, but there's one thing that made this year the best year of my life. Don't know what it is? You're on it right now. :slight_smile: 10.

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    Most definitely, I love this place to bits :grin:
     
  13. lostinthought9

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    ..coming out for the first time...
    2. What did you do over the summer?
    work...and i took an awesome vacation to florida and the bahamas..
    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    *sigh*...i got nothing...
    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    the Democratic Race....can't believe Hillary lost...
    5. Favourite song from the year?
    "Gives You Hell" by the All American Rejects
    6. Favourite artist this year?
    Pink...lol....or Disturbed.
    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    No new years resolution
    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)? Getting accepted by my first choice college.
    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    my best friend, KayLee, who like me came out this year, as bi...and she's been there for me, like i've been there for her..
    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    yes, that no matter how much you bust your ass, you can't satisfy everyone (my dad) so, having said that, everything i achieve or do now, will be for my own satisfaction.
    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    i had a wreck back in Jan. and i totaled my car. so its made me a more cautious driver
    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    no..not really...
    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    nope
    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    any time when me and my friends was just hanging out and having fun
    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    i can't remember a hugely specific one lol
    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    my friends and family
    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    idk, i'll be in college....so...probably be back at home catching up with everyone
    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different? no...no new years resolution...again...lol
    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)? 9..it was pretty good
    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    maybe...you just never know...
     
  14. Davo

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    1. The biggest change in your life this year?
    I didn't come out to anyone this year, darn, but I am finally going somewhere with my life

    2. What did you do over the summer?
    Cried about how I f***ed up my exams. I went away to Paris for a week, first holiday I've had in 8 years

    3. How were relationships with boyfriends/ girlfriends?
    I kissed a girl (total shock for me, and not the direction I want to go in). Besides that, nothing

    4. What news story sticks in your mind the most from 2008?
    Obama winning, credit crunch, there was that bird that kept stealing crisps from a shop, I don't have a memory for news

    5. Favourite song from the year?
    Fleet Foxes - White Winter Hymnal is my current favourite. I can't be bothered remembering other songs right now

    6. Favourite artist this year?
    I don't know. Radiohead? They're my favourite artist every year

    7. Did you make any new years resolutions and if so, did you stick to them?
    I wanted to learn guitar, I still don't have a guitar so that'll just have to carry over to this year. I basically just made a 'stop being a miserable sook' resolution, and I've made progress with that

    8. What are you most proud of personally this year (i.e.- something you have done)?
    Graduated! Woo Hoo! Got onto a teaching course! Get in!

    9. Who are you most proud of (can be a famous or non- famous person)?
    My best friend who has had a difficult year, and my brother for doing really well with everything

    10. Did you have to learn any hard life lessons in the past 12 months?
    I learnt to try and enjoy what I've got while I've still got it. That's not really a hard life lesson though

    11. Have you had any life- changing experiences in 2008?
    No, not many experiences in 2008

    12. Did you do anything you never thought you would do?
    I'm quite shy and uncomfortable about talking about myself and opening up to people, so being able to talk to a therapist about my dark dark past and being able to get on a teaching course and do some proper teaching to proper people, I never imagined I could do that

    13. Did you gain any new qualifications?
    Just a BSc (with Honours) in Maths and Physics, which I don't really give a shit about, but it got me onto my teaching course so... yes

    14. What is your happiest memory from the year?
    Not many memories, I've had some good times with friends who I now don't see as much, so those memories sadden me

    15. What was your most stupid incident (drunk stories would be good!)?
    During a drunken night out, I wandered off mid-conversation (no idea why), and started walking home only I went in the complete opposite direction, and it took me two hours before I realised this. I live just 3 minutes from the bar.

    16. What things do you appreciate most in your life at the moment?
    My family

    17. What are your plans for xmas/ new year?
    Just had xmas and new year. I had planned to have loads of fun and get my assignment written up. I had moderate fun and didn't get much of assignment done, darn. Didn't even go out for Hogmanay :icon_sad:

    18. Are you making any new years resolutions for 2009? What do you hope will be different?
    I hope to continue to improve in my course and as a person. As usual I plan to learn guitar, come out to my family and be better organised but those are my resolutions every year and I never achieve them. I just want to be happy, and perhaps have more friends, or someone special

    19. How do you rate 2008 on a scale of 1 to 10 (1 being the worst and 10 being the best)?
    5. The first 6 months were hell for me, but the last few ones have been great fun so it sort of balances out

    20. Will you still be on EC this time next year?
    I haven't been on EC for the last few months, hopefully I'll be on a bit more often, but I don't plan on leaving ever