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So who's out but cant find a boyfriend ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Evan, Aug 24, 2008.

  1. Trumpetplyer23

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    Well...I know I'm a girl, but I'm out and I've had a few boyfriends. I'm single now, and not really looking for anyone.

    I have not found a girlfriend, but I think there's a chance I could have one soon, I dunno. We'll see, right?
     
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    thats me im out so to speak... well not to every one but i cant find a bf, but i like some people
     
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    I'm not out but some what sort of have a boyfriend.
     
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    I dont know.
    Its not asif im looking as id far prefer to see what awaits me in college before id consider anyone.

    That being said.
    Id see it pretty difficult for me to land a boyf.
    just because i dont know any gay people.
    I know OF them. But i dont know them
     
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    I can't...but then again, I'm not really looking. I'm way to tired really. Maybe next week.
     
  6. I'm out, and I haven't gone out with anyone, boy or girl, since the fifth grade. Which doesn't count. At my school if you're not blonde, ridiculously skinny, or have huge boobs, you're not hot. And I'm not any of those things.

    I know exactly. I watched my best friend (and crush) cuddle with her boyfriend all night last week. *dies*

    What? I don't know about the social skills, but I am looking at your new avatar and you have possibly THE most gorgeous eyes I've ever seen.

    I dunno. I want someone, and badly, but I can live without. I've got close friends who care and I'm good for now. ~megan~
     
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    Evan you're not ugly or fat... I think you said fat. Not calling you fat if you didn't say that. Its just that people normally say "i'm fat and ugly" so yeah.

    I'm still in the closet; even if i was out I would be single... no gay or bi guys at my school that are my type unfortunately. There is this girl I met recently though; she's sweet and funny... ten bucks says she has a boyfriend. Lol.
     
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    well, I'm more out than I've ever been, but still, no one for me.
    It's not a priority to me, but it sure would be nice to have a boyfriend.
    :grin:
     
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    I'm only out to about 19 or 20 people.

    But I go to a Cathloic school...so it's ALOT harder. No one is out at all. I'm sure there are some Bi or gay guys and gals there, but it's really hard at a catholic school.

    I'm always hit with the loneliness thing =\ SO many couples where I'm at. I wish I could have that.

    Plus I'm not exactly the hottest guy around. I'm not saying I'm ugly, just all people focus on are the "REALLY HOT" guy or girl, or the "OMG I WANT HIM/HER NOW" kind of people...not the casual guy sitting right next to them >.>
     
  10. Urman

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    i know how you feel

    *raises hand* i can't :frowning2:
     
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    High five! .....m 23...n m still scared to go out...meet new people..being an introvert sucks if u aint a genius or child prodigy....no one cares
     
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    I'm a lesbian and I can't find a girlfriend because girls usually aren't lesbians so no one likes me back.
     
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    It's pretty hard because every time someone likes me, I don't like them (usually because they're psychos. I seem to attract a lot of those :l ).

    Then, when I like someone, they're always straight. Always. But even if they weren't straight, I'd have to come out as trans and hope they don't reject me because of it. It's honestly soul crushing to have to reveal something so personal and have it backfire on you. It terrifies me.

    So, yeah, it sucks. Though I admit I'm not very open about my sexuality, so someone looking from afar wouldn't know. However, if you get to know me, it's not very hard to figure out. If you ask me directly, I might even tell you if you don't make me uncomfortable.
     
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    The ones I like don't like me and the ones I do don't.
     
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    Me but that's because all the guys i ask are either straight or they already have boyfriends. ):
     
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    I feel the exact same way. I am scared about where my life is going, and i have nobody to share my life with. i feel like asking somebody would push them further into the closet. i feel stuck, i guess, like you
     
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    I've been "out to everyone" for a few years, and I can't :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I am the same. I have really good social skills and not shy but I just don't seem to attract anybody. I just think I cannot be that unlucky to die alone lol