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How do you know you're gay

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by -Michael-, Aug 4, 2008.

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  1. Amy

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    ^ seconded ^



    -how do you know youre bi?
    how do you know youre straight?
    -because God made me this way.
    thats funny...same here!


    because i like penises /and/ vaginas. duh!


    (one of my lesbian friends) i'll fall completley in love with a guy, but i dont want to have sex with one. no offense or anything, but, penises kind of disgust me.


    (one of my gay friends) because vaginas and boobs make me naseus.
     
    #21 Amy, Aug 5, 2008
  2. pinkhotbabe

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    Its such a stupid question and i just ignore it!
     
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  3. Owen

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    Take the same approach as ccdd, NathanHaleFan, Trumpetplyer23, and Lexington; an explicit answer than silences them instantly.

    Most of the time, I'm not just asked how I know, but how I can know if I've never had sex with a guy or a girl. To this, I reply, "Because I think about guys when I masturbate." Their face: priceless.
     
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  4. Todd

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    so if I said I wanted to suck and kiss and get screwed by a guy, do you think that would work ???
     
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    Depends. I've never gone with an explicit reply just because of how extremely bigoted the people in my area are, but if you feel safe and comfortable, it's always an option. Maybe not going so far as to describe your sexual desires, just that you're certain of your emotional and physical attractions.
     
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    I just say something like "The attraction to girls was what tipped me off."
     
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    "Hey, I want them all!" :grin:
     
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    i think my reaction definitely depends on whether they are asking in a sort of caring and naive way or if it's a judgmental way...if it's judgmental i answer with attitude. though i think from now on my answer will be 'bc i am constantly undressing men with my eyes' :slight_smile:...if it's someone who's a little naive but i'm close with i usually tell them that you know when you realize that your porn has more boys than girls
     
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    I use the "How do you know you're straight?" Approach, usually cause its family that asks and going into explicit detail with my mother or whoever would be kinda creepy...
     
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    When my best friend asked me i said.

    "Because your dick in my mouth, would be heaven."

    He the proceeded to take his pants down a wap it out.
    I wasn't impressed.
    Nor was his girlfriend haha.

    Just thinking back to my best friends.
    When they ask me all these questions i never give a straight answer.
    And then i struggle to answer people who just randomly ask.
    Probably because no1 believes me and i feel like i have to prove it to them.
    I've gotta stop thinking that.
     
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    Me too. :thumbsup:
     
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    Some old favourites; "Well, I don't think straight people ever get asked that question", or "the liberal media".

    I can rarely take questions like that seriously, so I figure I might as well have at least a small chuckle out of it.
     
    #32 Rette, Aug 6, 2008
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    I would absolutely love to do that! If it could be taught, I would be the most dedicated student in the world. Malala wouldn't hold a candle to my desire to learn it. (*hug*)

    That is AWESOME! P.S. I'm referring to "I scream it from rooftops" on your out status.

    ---------- Post added 20th Mar 2013 at 05:05 PM ----------

    I haven't directly been asked yet but I like to think I'd say something like: tell you what. If you can come up for a serious, non-bullshit answer for why YOU are straight, I tell you my secret about why I'm Gay."
     
    #33 RedLight, Mar 20, 2013
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    The Walking Thread...grab your guns!

    (Walking Dead reference)
     
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