well first off, i can say my heart goes out to you and samii and i hope that the recovery goes well(*hug*). Other than that all i can say is be there even if samii doesn't show that he needs it because he might and is just not asking for it. Good luck(*hug*)
UPDATE They changed his surgery date to the 21st because of issues with work schedule -._-. Keep in mind that's the 20th for you people in America.
Just letting you guys know that his surgery went well. Writing this before heading back to the hospital. He'll be discharged in the morning
Oh, good I missed the good-luckings, (And ZOMG his surgery was on my birthday! Wieeerd.) But that's awesome that it went well. Hope you feel better fast Samii, we love you