Who's virgin who's not?

Technically, I lost my virginity when I was 19, but it was really uncomfortable & unnatural for me, so I just assumed I was doing something wrong. But I've felt like that every single time I've had sex, which eventually had led me to the conclusion that it's not because I'm necessarily doing anything wrong, but that the body I was born with is wrong. Since I am female emotionally & mentally, I have pretty much spent my life wanting to have sex like a girl, but the thought of having sex with a guy has just never appealed to me either, I am & have never really been, attracted to guys. Sex is so uncomfy for me, that I just stopped having it & it's been like over 6 years since the last time I have. It's not that I don't want to, & God knows I want to be with another woman, I just can't bring myself to have sex like I'm a guy. After everything leading up to & after I came out, I realized (& continue to kind of struggle with) that sex is horrible for me because I'm a lesbian in a male body, which is horrible in & of itself. I've sort of gotten to this conclusion a few times before in my life, but trying to face it has always been hard, I even tried telling myself that being a straight guy & a lesbian with male genitals was the same thing - it's most definitely not. With all that in mind, since I've come out to both myself & a few friends, I have also started to consider & identify myself as being like a virgin, since I haven't yet had sex the way I feel I should be having it. Sorry for the long post, but believe me, the whole being trans/having sex thing is complicated, at least for me anyway, IDK...

 

*sigh* Ditto. I blame it on all the Disney movies I watched when I was younger. xP

 

I'm a virgin and have never kissed anyone on the lips.

I think I'll wait til marriage or something. (to lose my virginity, not kiss someone on the lips.)

 

If I had it to do over again, this is what I would do. I threw myself into a few one-night stands to try and "test" my sexuality in college, but I got nothing out of them at all.

 

I'm still a Virgin, sadly.

 

I'm a virgin. I'm waiting for that special woman who sweeps me off my feet.

 

i think u should "lose it" with someone ur absolutely in love with and think ur goign to spend the rest of ur life with.maybe thats just me

 

That's exactly how I feel for myself.

 

virgin here. never slept with a man or a woman. wouldn't mind having sex with a woman just to see if i love it or not but i'm sure down with man sex with the right man. haha. i don't want a one night stand. i think it would be so much better to lose it in a relationship with someone i love. i'm kind of getting up there in age.

 

With a woman, no. With a man yes, but that may change if certain events take place. And whilst I said no to being a virgin with a woman and despite 16 years of very happy marriage (until my wife died last year), I can count on the fingers of 1 hand how many times I have 'made love' ( as in full intercourse) to a woman in 56 years, which may possibly explain part of the reason that I a will be at some point meeting up with a man.

 

I'm not but I don't regret it, it was kinda hot :O

 

I'm not, I waited till I found someone I loved. Unfortunately she didn't feel the same way back in he end *sigh*

 

I am, and the way things are going now it looks like it might stay that way for awhile lol

 

i cant wait till the day Im not * clears throat * tmi im sorry

 

*blushes* my answer needs to be changed from every other time I answered this question on any thread ....

 

@Mercy It will happen eventually and it'll be wonderful =]

@ HazMattic_Force Congratulations =P

 

I am, with both men and women... really would like to know what it's all about, but haven't found the right person at the right time yet...

 

I am still a virgin [duh!] I have friends who aren't but I think people shouldn't run into these things before the are 100%

 

I'm not. It was with my best friend and she didn't love me back.