Hi there , I have one question, can fully gay man get erection every time he imagine sex with girl, for example how he licking pussy of a girls...? Can he have erection every time when for example good looking girl touches him, holding hands, hug , kiss or when flirt with girl? For example I'm gay but with every think I mentioned above I get erection, or when I for example dance with a girl in club but with no rub, I will get erected and precum. And one example of many I was with one with one women just sitting on bench and talking, It was like date and I was hard all time and leaked precum, or when I would just flirt with girl through messages too I would get hard , how's that possible?
Once I embraced fully my homosexuality I was no longer able to become aroused by a woman period. As time went on the idea of sexual relations with a woman seemed repulsive. I want to forget that “straight” period of my life totally.
Sorry but isnt logical that you never were aroused to women because you are gay , how much you lied yoursef that you are attracted to girls , of you are gay you just can get erection because of women. W
I can't tell you for sure what your sexual orientation is, but from what you've written it sounds like you're at least bisexual. I assume you get aroused by men too?
Yes Im aroused by men definetly, with women is less but my body reacts on all this situations all the time,and a lot more then I wrote. I tought that its because of pubery or something like that, but Im 26 now and it still didnt stop to happen. And I can see here that men say, that after they embraced they are gay they stopped being aroused by women. But thats sounds ilogical too me, if they are gay how they can have erection by I dont know, imagining sex with women. For me that sounds just like I imagine sex with dog and of course I will not get erection because Im not attracted by animals.
I think that for men who have never been with a woman, it is less likely to happen, but not at all impossible. I think that for men who have been with women, it can happen. It might just happen less and not as intensely as it might when they might be with a man. It seems like a lot of things factor into arousal. It's partly mental, too. For men, things I've read say that it tends to be more visual than it is for women. How much I've been attracted to who I've been with has an effect on the intensity of the sex and the arousal. What I think really happens is that if guys start getting into having sex with guys, they move away from situations that would give them access to sex with women. I'm not sure if that's conscious or subconscious. Like I said, for me it's mostly about how much I'm attracted to a potential sex partner and whether or not having sex with someone will lead them on or hurt them when that is NOT what you had meant to do.
That's the thing, after they faced the truth rather than trying to force themselves to be straight- it stopped. Suppression is no joke, but you already faced the truth of you being into men
For me it happened before and after I had sex with women, its just the same. Yes of course I get it, of course you will have greater intensity in sex when you are attracted to person, but but that doesnt mean you are not attracted to another gender but less attracted.
They maybe tought that they have attraction to opposite gender and were stimulating their penis when having sex or thinking about someone else during sex, but to just imagine sex with women without stimulating sexual organ and get erection, every time you do it, I think that you have to have some attraction. Or when just having flirt with a girl even without touching, how could you get hard when you are not attracted to girls generally?
Speaking from my own experience, I never get an erection looking at pictures of women anymore and fantasising about sex with them doesn’t work either. That’s just me though and everyone is different with this stuff it seems.
Early on I was able to get an erection from a woman however as I embraced my homosexuality more openly the desire disappeared and shortly there after the ability to become aroused. Now, not possible to gain an erection from a woman. Frankly the idea now seems totally gross.
I used to get erections from looking at girls until I discovered my attraction for men. Now I never do.
Interesting to read how people transition. I guess it's similar to people that first identify as bisexual and then become exclusively gay.
Yes, some people do. When I think of this occurring, the one famous person that comes to mind is Elton John.
It was always quite an effort for me to get aroused looking at women and I struggled with it for years. After I discovered what happened when I let my mind think about men sexually I no longer had a problem. I honestly didn’t know there was any attraction to men for a really long time.
That's very similar to what I'm currently going through. Its feels like an effort to get aroused by women. Allowing myself to accept that men turn me on is hard in the real world. No such problems in private.