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First Time With a Guy

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by Jakebusman, Jan 25, 2023.

  1. Jakebusman

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    Any advice on first time with a guy ?
     
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    Just take things naturally and only do what you feel comfortable with. It is of course important to do this with a guy you can trust, someone who will respect your wishes. You may well find it so exciting that everything just happens without any need to overthink things. Hope that it is an amazing experience for you.
     
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    I think it's important to manage expectations and take things at a comfortable pace.
     
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    What do you want to do with the guy and how to find him? I hope it would be awesome!
     
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    It will come naturally. Kissing, sucking, inserting or taking penis. It will come with desire.
     
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    You have experience ?
     
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    Lube is your friend, and it can be hard to relax your first time.
     
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    Make sure it’s not someone who wants to meet up moments after you chat. Try to meet up first for a face to face with the rule of no intimate contact the first time. I try to meet other men and they are ready to jump in the sack that same day. For me I have to have a connection and I’m not looking for a meet up just to say I conquered one more guy. I always look for someone I can be friends with first and then intimate friends later.
     
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    How are you trying to meet a guy? It amazes me how so many guys got to fool around with guys as teens or can just go on the app and boom easy as that. I hope it's like that for you Jakebusman goodluck!
     
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    Have you been with a guy yet?
     
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    Me ? No
     
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    Well I’ll tell you what some of my experiences have been so far. I have let men hit on me other than me doing it. We ended in his place or sometimes in a car depending on how safe I felt. As far as the sex goes, the recommendation I have is slow and easy. In a car, it’s easy to get caught up the frantic side of sex but it usually ends quickly with only one person getting any real release/relief. In a car it’s not safe or comfortable to try for penetration, so save that for the bed. I love making love to both men and women and I don’t differentiate with either. Basically, we usually start with feeling and getting to know each others body. We do oral and then penetration occurs. That can happen in so many ways and they are all great for me. Taking it, giving it, both. We simply enjoy something that only men can feel with each other and the same when I’m with a woman (including my wife). I have yet to experience a 3-some with a man and woman. Hoping that can happen. When I fantasize that’s where I go.
     
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    Sounds fun
     
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    Hi Jake! hope youre well!!!! I recently had my first experience with an AMAB partner, and it was, underwhelming, i believe alot of my issues came from nerves, an unfamiliar location and i really wasnt ready for it. Id only met them once before, and i really did it on a whim. I rushed into it and was absolutely let down. My advice, take your time, let things happen naturally, dont try to force it/let them force you. Also, foreplay is HUGELY important in my opinion and would have been a great way to ease into it. And remember to just have fun!!!
     
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    Become friends first. Too many guys misrepresent themselves and only time will uncover their truths. I have been chat friends with a guy for 5 months and we met to only talk once. He continues to be the same person and maybe soon we’ll meet to see if taking the next step is what we really want. He has the same wants and desires which is something that’s important to me.
     
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    Hope you and your guy work out
     
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    Thank you Jake. I hope you find what you are looking for. Don’t be afraid of rejection or rejecting others. Use your common sense and let it direct you. But also don’t be afraid to reach out, or take the time to see if someone is really worthy of your trust. I assure you, once you find that right person, you will be glad you did. Your body has an amazing ability to bring you pleasure in so many ways and I feel the most pleasure you can receive is when you are with someone you trust.
     
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    Bob you’re right on. Thanks for your input.
     
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    New also previous said, don’t give out your information, my experience on another site is you may be tracked, they need money to meet you, or just blackmail. Remember, there are people out there who don’t care.
     
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    What is an AMAB partner?
     
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