Asexuality

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Haruto, Oct 24, 2022.

  1. Haruto

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    So I'm asexual. I just want to get that off my chest. Feels so much better. I had "the talk" when I was 14 in my dad's closet. (Ironic, I know.) I was instantly repulsed and thought, "That doesn't sound cool." When I was 16, I noticed I wasn't developing crushes based on their body. (Note: I was still identifying as straight, so I was also only looking at girls.)

    Fast forward to now, I was thinking, "why is no one hot?" This is where, if life was an LGBallT comic, the crack appears. I later discovered asexuality and started connecting to it. I have become so much more confident in it and I hope at some point I can tell my folks. However, I think I would overwhelm them, since I'm also coming out as boyflux and biromantic.

    But, yeah. There it is. Just wanted to say that.
     
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    Congratulations!!!
     
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    congrats on not doin the lewd my guy
     
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    So happy you found a label that fits !
     
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    OMG this had me rolling my brother actually had to come and help me stop
     
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    well to go a step further aroace hit hard
     
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    Congrats! I somehow ended up with a huge amount of asexual friends and they're all super cool. I look forward to a future where asexuality is well known and well understood, I see it come closer every year!
     
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    Honestly, I look forward to a future where we ̶r̶u̶l̶e̶ ̶t̶h̶e̶ ̶w̶o̶r̶l̶d̶- I mean be accepted and eat garlic bread. Lots of garlic bread.
     
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    I saw a tiktok that was like "Bi+ and aro/ace people are such good friends bc of ionic bonds. Ever wonder where your attraction went? A Bi-spec person has it."
     
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