It's been 12 years since a neat guy I was hiking with grabbed my hand, me thinking, ok the sun is going down, he does not want to get lost in the wilderness. We walked for ~1.5 miles, holding hands. I had never felt anything so good as his hand in mine. This was the beginning. Me finding ECs and working really hard on this sight and reading many LGBT and other books. Articles too. Me meeting new friends and joining gay mens groups. And now I found this web sight this morning. This rocks! https://www.liveabout.com/how-to-flirt-with-gay-men-1411263
I enjoyed the article. It's great if the object of your interest is gay or bi and you know for sure. If they're not, then it could possibly create problems. Ones that should be water under the bridge in no time. There's nothing else you can do!