Hey Lena, i came out mid 20's and i was finally ready that time when i was so in denial and confused before. I got more attracted and drawn to femme or feminine looking ones i thought i was just admiring how they look but it was more than that , i tried to deny my feelings before but it was so heavy and hard to resist. I think most people are attracted thru personality or chemistry or whatever nature of attraction we have but i think i was always been like this. I may find guys cute here and there but i dont want anything romantically. How bout you? How did you find out?
Over the last few years I’ve said things in passing like “I have been attracted to women on occasion” then in the last few months I’ve realised a big fat crush that I’ve had for a while that’s opened my mind to how I really feel about women. I finally feel free.
Thank you for sharing. I guess you are right. By that definition I am a lesbian then. @Cas girl Jump right in!
I was born in Brighton. Seriously though, I was always into girls. I love everyone but can only really fall for some special girl out there. I'm still open to other things. In fact, I'll find some femme but not femme guy that I'm attracted to but it passes, it doens't happen very often. It's a part of me and I love it, I only have to come out to people I meet and sometimes I don't need too, I try not to, so it can passively come out. I love it.
Hey Lena, Yeah me too dont need to come out to anyone unless i want them to know or asked. It is just when we feel it at the very moment to someone we just know .
Thank you. Hi I am 26. I am find both men and women attractive, but indifferent about a physical relationship. I have a huge crush on the girl who played Red Riding Hood on once upon a time.
OMG! SHE'S SO PRETTY!!! Lol, she is going to become my wallpaper, profile, and celebrity crush now!!!!!!!!
@Cas girl I will be 26 on Sunday so we are pretty much the same age. I'm crushing on Carrie Underwood still.
I know. She is an eternal beauty. I hope she brings a smile to your face whenever you see your wallpaper.
Can I just put out there that I hate men? Especially the good looking ones? The bane of my existence.