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(Awkward alert) Underarm hair preferences?

Discussion in 'Physical & Sexual Health' started by CuriousLad, Jul 20, 2018.

  1. CuriousLad

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    I've noticed people don't talk about this as much as public hair. I've got an idea of what girls think about guys sporting it but what do gay or bi men think about it? How bushy or trimmed do they like it? Would preferences change based on role, race or body type? Is it always a sign of being a man?
    Also are there absolutely any women who feel comfortable not waxing and calling it out for what it is- something we've all internalised in millennia-old male-dominated societies?
     
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    I don't care at all if a woman has underarm hair. But, I live in the mountains and definitely go for ungroomed men and women.

    I respect a woman who is strong enough to rely on her natural beauty. No makeup no shaving. I have never understood any of the cosmetic preening performed by either sex.

    I have always had a thing for hippy chicks!
     
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    I always left mine natural until just recently when I trimmed it for the first time. I don’t have much hair to begin with so it doesn’t make a huge difference.

    On other guys I like when they have hairy pits, but it really doesn’t matter.
     
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    I trim my armpit hair to a length of about 10 mm. I used to shave it off completely, and I did like it, but I definitely prefer having hairy armpits, as long as the hair isn't too long.

    On other people I don't mind whether they shave their pits (or anything else for that matter) or not, it's their choice and theirs alone. However I do have a slight preference for body hair over hairless skin.
     
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    I like a man that looks like a man.
     
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    I like women shaved and men natural
     
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    Same. But if a man has excessive armpit hair, then I'd hope he'd trim it a bit.
     
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    I agree, it can get a little out of hand
     
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    basically I like women feminine and men masculine
     
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    Why is armpit hair considered not feminine? I think a woman who doesn't subscribe to societal expections about what men might want are super hot!

    Most of the women who I hung out with rock climbing and kayaking didn't shave and they were built and sexy as hell! I would never ask a woman to put up with the itch and burn trying to paddle all day long for my benefit.

    Although hair long enough to braid doesn't do it for either sex.
     
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    I don’t care what other people do, that’s their business. It’s my opinion that it’s feminine. No one has to agree with me. I like traditional beauty, it’s not a crime
     
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    On a serious note, we do need to take great care with shaving, particularly when it comes to the shaving of pubic hair because a cut or skin tear can become an entry point for infection and STI's.
     
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    No problems here. I’m all natural. Also, I haven’t noticed a line of people trying to get into that region. I think the world is safe from me
     
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    I agree.

    Although, it is interesting to me to learn how other people feel about what is masculine or feminine.

    As odd as this sounds. I've had this same convo with a mixed group of men and women around a campfire. It was interesting to get an outdoor active woman's view of what is feminine.

    That's just my type of person in general...it's all good
     
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    Yeah is a personal opinion, I get that. I certainly wasn’t trying to impose my opinions on anyone else. Everyone is attracted to different things
     
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    I'm quite a hairy guy and I shave all my body hair except arms and legs to a grade 1 or 2. I think it's nicer to keep body hair under control and it's practical for really hairy people but I wouldn't insist on it.
    For me there is something very attractive about body hair on a guy and I think it's weird seeing any adult shaved smooth like a small child.
     
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    Also not a fan of a hairy butt. Again, just a personal preference
     
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    If your partner is a little too hairy for you, it can be really fun to do a little trimming as part of foreplay. You don't need to use a razor...a bandaid scissor works great!

    Super stimulating!
     
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    For me it‘s exactly the oposit. „Hairy“ women and shaved men.
     
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    I don’t mind trimmed but if all below the belt is shaven we look like we are 10