when I get bored I like to play this game as I go through the day. I like to guess which other people are gay or bi that I encounter. I’m sure that I work with someone who is, or who has at least experimented. I’m probably wrong most of the time, but it’s an interesting diversion
Tell me about it! I am sure I am read as straight 100% of the time. It sucks. I even wear a bracelet with bi colors and no one knows what it is. I thought about wearing a rainbow one, but then I'm afraid people will think I am gay, and even though I am 100% fine with them thinking that, isn't not accurate and I don't want them to be confused later when I clarify I'm bi.
But I may wear one anyway. I just need to get noticed at this point. I can always correct them later.
Lol and if they're attractive AND nice to me, they're gay and they don't know it yet. xD I kid, I kid. Just being a creeper~
Hahaha. IKR? But seriously, you're lucky as a dude. Girls can be SO flirty and not mean anything by it. Worse than guys I think. Though I can't judge cause I'm a girl and do the same thing.
It's awful though because it's on the other extreme where I will go to a bar or club and NO ONE will talk to me. It's disheartening and a huge ego blow
Aww. I feel you. I don't get approached either. If you were into chicks I would definitely approach you.
My wife and I play that game together. She thinks she is good at it. I remind her we were married for thirty years and she never figured it out with me! This is one of the issues with being gay or bi. Meeting someone of the same sex just out and about is difficult. The odds are not as good. I know when I was young, and dating women, I could chat up a woman on a chairlift and ask her out for a drink later. The odds were that she was into guys so the chances of successfully making a connection are so much higher. Steve. Hang in there. The only thing you can do is put yourself out there a bit.
Yeah. I have no idea how to meet women. I swear it seems there are more gay men than lesbians and they are harder to pick out. I only know one lesbian and she's already with another girl.