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Feeling really gay?

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    Eh, we all like what we like. I don't like super feminine women and I worry that people will think I am not bi enough for being that way. I feel like the bisexuals who prefer feminine women and masculine men actually have an advantage because they are seen as more legit. Whereas bisexuals who go for androgyny more get told things like, "well if you like masculine girls why not just date a man and be straight? It's easier!" Of course completely disregarding the fact that no matter how masculine she looks she is STILL a woman and that's kinda the point. People who are attracted to masculine women are into WOMEN. Sigh. Some people don't get it. I am sure if I told a lesbian to date a really feminine man she might not like the idea of that. Why? Because no matter how feminine he is she wants a woman. People still don't seem to understand how people dress and act does not indicate your sex.
     
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    Unfortunately my wife is not into being dominant. I’ve tried to interest her in some things, but largely she doesn’t go for it. Although she doesn’t seem to mind me going down on her for an hour
     
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    I'm exactly the opposite. When I fall for a guy, it's intense. But it's less frequent and my attraction to women is gentler. I think this is why I didn't notice it until college. The guy crushes were hard to miss.

    Hmmm that's interesting that you'd pick a different gender role with a man and a woman. I definitely would not.

    Shane, nah, I'm not into Shane. I am Shane xD
     
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    Yes, that is true... at least in my case. I fall for the quieter guys ut I am also a magnet for them. I guess it is true for many people like that, masculine women, feminine men.
     
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    I’m not even sure what you would call me. I’m into many unusual things which I will not go into here, except to say nothing illegal. Lol
     
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    You are Shane? :grinning: That is a dangerous admission. Are you trying to make me fall in love with you? Lol
     
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    Lol. She's "butch", right? In some way. Androgynous butch.
     
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    I would say androgynous. :wink:
     
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    Yeah, I would go for androgynous too concerning Shane.
     
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    Me too.
     
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    Then be it. I love her style :grin: That of Ruby Rose too. I mean, to wear it.
    Sandra Alvaregna is a rockstar too, like Shane! *uses google*

    Jeez, I can't come up with a celebrity... Even googling the L word (not that i watched it, lol), all the other characters are much more my type. Except for he trans man. How about Jenny, Alice? I have a weakness for somewhat hippie girls, like, boho, stuff... for cuties too. But I swear, I was into a masculine girl once or twice. One looked like a handsome boy and the other wore cargos and band tee and was tough... she had the swagger. I used to be straighter, lol.
     
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    I like Alice a lot but I think it's also because she's kind of an example for me. How she deals with all the crap remarks concerning her bisexuality for example. Dana on the other hand is one of my celebrity crushes (although she makes some of those crap remarks concerning bisexuality I wrote about). Although I think Shane is very handsome and I like her style I don't know if I would date her. Yeah, who am I kidding? Of course I would lol. But I prefer Dana!
     
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    Lol. Weirdly enough the only women I'm attracted to in the L Word are Shane and Jenny. Opposite extremes!
     
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    OMG! You need to watch The L Word! I just started watching it yesterday, it's so good. I got into it strangely enough on youtube when I found some great clips of Shane so I started watching the series yesterday. *Fans herself.* Try it, you won't regret it!
     
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    Jenny is really pretty though. She kinda looks like a Rory Gilmore with the bangs.
     
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    I have known I was bi since I was in high school. Recently I started feeling more “gay”. It started out as a physical need that was intense...but now I can’t go a day without thinking about being in a relationship with another women. I’m down to talk anytime. I’ve opened up to a few people and it really helps me put my thoughts together. I’m also a good listener :slight_smile:
     
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    Hi there! Thank you for the kind thoughts and words. I relate to this feeling of being overwhelmed with desire for a woman. In particular I am fixated on this one particular female celebrity that I have developed an infatuation for, and I feel like wanting her has opened up the door even wider to all these feelings. The funny thing though is what I want sexually changes so much! Three weeks ago or so I was fantasizing about men, and every time I see an attractive man I imagine what it would be like to be with him too. I am so confused, I feel like I don't know what I want most of the time, and I have no experience with either gender so I have no idea what it's like to be with either one.
     
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    I totally understand that feeling. I think you know what your next move should be.
     
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    What do you think I should do?
     
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    If I were in your shoes I would seek out relationships. Just be open about. You never know who you will meet. I don’t know where you live but you may find a LGBT community close to you. I would also make friends in that community. You can use apps like Meet Up or just sites like this. I like this site because I live in a small town. The only thing I don’t like is the forum aspect. I thinks chats are better in my opinion
     
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