I'm bi but i haven't come out however i would like a relationship i just don't know how to aproach girls since at my school i don't know anyone who's openly bi or lesbian. Mind to chit chat or share your experiences?
You can always say it was a joke or that nothing really happened, depending on what kind of flirting you go for. A lot of people play flirt.
Maybe join an LGBT school club if there is one. If not I remember I used to just use dating apps or find other queer girls on social media like Twitter. If anything go to Pride cause it’s a great place to meet and network with people.
I used to use this one called Her and I found 4 of my exes/dates on there. It’s really important to be safe though like obviously facetime/videochat the person first to confirm their identity and meet up in a public place if it gets to that. I meant Gay Pride haha
So sorry haha Haha sorry i didn't know what was i thinking. I've seen the app HER but i think i have to pay and i depend of my parents so can't aforrd it even if it very low price cause they don't know i'm bi.
I personally never "came out" and had this big shebang. I never had this big video or social media post, no party. I just became very open about the things I'm going through and feeling. And because of it, I'm know as like the gayest chick in my school and it's amazing. But I have no girl on girl dating experience so I don't know if following my path will help you lol.
I'm in the same boat. I live in a conservative area and I have only met one out lesbian at my school and she is in a relationship. I met one other girl who I think was closeted. She had dated a girl before on the down low, but she never outright said she was gay even though she wasn't really into men at all by her own admission. She and I also used to flirt playfully with each other but I don't see her anymore. Other than that I haven't met any and no girl who was my type. I hope when I transfer that will change.
But as for tips flirting is definitely the way to go. Just try it and see how she responds. Most girls play flirt anyway so even if she's not interested unless she is deeply religious or homophobic she won't care. I personally flirt with people all the time, and would respond very positively if a girl did that to me.