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(Bisexuals) Are you more straight or gay ?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by SomeAverageBoy, Oct 16, 2017.

  1. Earthfae

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    I suppose by definition I am bisexual. Spent my entire teen & adult life in hetero relationships with only a few lesbian encounters over the years but always knew I was more attracted to women. Finally, at age 39, engaged in my first actual real lesbian relationship AND IT FEELS AWESOME!! I finally feel like ME. And although I am dead serious when I swear I am 100% done with men forever, a very select few, as before, men i srill find attractive. LOTS of women I find attractive... So I assume by everyone else's definitions I would be bisexual with a preference for women. Personally I consider myself lesbian Bc I know I am done with men even if no one else believes me yet. LOL (and most lesbians I know do find some men attractive but just would never touch... idk. I hate labels and this is why lol)
     
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    I have repressed myself sexually so I have zero experience (sexually or relationship wise) with men and I have been in love with woman. However my porn habits lead me to believe that my preference is leaning more towards guys. I really like woman it doesn't make sense to me to completely exclude them as potential partners but I check guys out more often.
     
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    Your reply wasn't clear tho... are YOU male or female?
     
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    My bad, I'm a guy
     
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    I'm a 2 on the kinsey scale, but I consider myself to be heteroromantic... so more straight than bi, but still exploring! Also it's more about personality for me and not instant attraction..
     
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    I'm more fluid than bi, come to think of it. I was like 80/20 straight/gay growing up but it's more like 45/55 now.
     
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    I don't really have relationship experience yet but I think it's 50/50 thing I like specific characteristics in males and females so it's not like there's tons of people I can see if I'm attracted to.

    So funny recently at a restaurant I saw both types (from male and female) I'm attracted to like moments apart grrrrr:slight_smile:...
     
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    I think I can say that I'm more straight than gay (and that phrase kinda confused me for a second there). Or perhaps it's more appropriate to say that I share more things in common with a straight man than with a gay man.
     
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    Ya it's confusing because if you're gay you're gay and if you're straight you're straight...I think that's what you were getting at there?...
     
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    I seem to rotate between being more into men and then more into women. I still secretly hope I am heterosexual sometimes but I'm learning to accept I'm likely not. So part of it could be I want to like men so maybe that's why I think about them?
     
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    Boy do I still hope deep down I'm heterosexual why is this solo hard? I know I'm not gay though because I am attracted to boys...
     
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    Glad I'm not the only one who feels that way. I think it's hard if people aren't accepting or if we fear people won't be accepting. I used to think I was a lesbian but then I realized I think I like guys too. Or maybe I'm really just a lesbian in denial. I don't know, hopefully one day I will figure it out.
     
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    Yes one day is one day and I look forward to that day in anticipation:slight_smile:...
     
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    Hopefully it comes sooner rather than later for both of us. So how old are you? I'm 24 and my mom says I should know my sexual orientation by now.
     
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    Yes hopefully...I turned 20 on Saturday...and I really don't think there's an age to when you should know everyone is different...
     
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    Oh, I guess my birthday wish wasn't that belated then. I agree with you, 20 is still young and when people are discovering themselves.
     
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    Thanks yes it wasn't but even then I still don't think there's any age to know there are so many factors that go into it...
     
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    I agree. My mom is heterosexual so I don't think she gets that since she doesn't have personal experience.
     
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    Totally yes you'll only know if you've been there...
     
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    :slight_smile: I have to go now, so nice talking to you this morning.