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I can't help thinking about sex with women

Discussion in 'LGBT Later in Life' started by junebug99, Oct 4, 2017.

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  1. dreamingfreely

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    Heck yeah . I want it all with the right person.
     
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    Me too!
     
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    So what are these ideal ladies like?
     
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    it nice to know it not just me right now thinking about it a lot, for the past week it all I sometimes think about, and playing it out in my head.
     
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    I think it would be nice to have a lady with a sense of humor. Someone Who is active and likes going for walks. Someone that likes go out and not just sit at home. A lady that appreciates when I do something for her just because. A lady that deserves respect and support in everything she does. Whoever my lady ends up being will get all of that and more from me. She'll get my love too!
     
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    I've recently started to have thoughts like that too. And it doesn't help that I'm touch starved either.
     
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    She is going to be a lucky lady.
     
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    I'm sure your lady is lucky too!
     
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    Yep keep dreaming it will happen
     
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    Dreaming about it is so wonderful. It all feels so real and right. I love those kinds of dreams. I wish I had one every night.
     
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    Yes! This! But also I want the movie to be as gay AF because I'm so tired of self-censoring..
     
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    Me too. Just putting my arm around a women gives me goose bumps. I feel way more in tune with my sexuality.
     
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    I love being under a blanket. Even if I'm not cold. And to be able to share that with someone special would make it so much better.
     
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    I would want someone that would make me laugh and remember not to be so serious. I want us to say something that outsiders would never find funny but makes us giggle for 20 minutes like little girls. Also I want to be able to talk about the important things in our life without brushing them away. I guess I would want her to be my best friend as well as someone I could tell anything to. Cuddling under a blanket watching Netflix is a must and time should be set aside for binge watching. She wouldn't be interested in the club scene but getting together with friends either as a couple or on our own time. She would never get upset with me for going out to lunch with a coworker and I would be able to tell her when I was at a work team building fun day instead of having to lie and say I am stuck in seminars all day so don't call my desk lol. I would want to take care of her by doing little things like bringing her a drink when she gets home or giving her a message when she looks like she had a hard day. Hopefully she would be down to do things like go to concerts, plays, farmers markets, the beach, parks, camping, and other outdoor activities.
     
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    Haha thank you. I hope she feels lucky and special, I'll have to ask.
     
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    It feels like I have found such a woman and I'm beginning to worry that I'm not active enough for her!
     
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    Has she said this to you?
     
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    Ah, such a tough question to really pin down the answer too. It is something that is constantly on my mind. Though I try not to allow myself to focus on the ideal anything because nothing in life ever is what we expect and that is what makes the journey so wonderful. The image I have in my mind is hazy at best. There is no ideal look, or body type that I consistently imagine.

    More than anything I want someone that I can connect with on a deeper level. Someone that is not afraid to show emotion and share the parts of themselves that we try so hard to keep hidden (something I am horribly guilty of). I want someone that can help bring this out in me. I want to make someone feel beautiful, not just sexy- there is a time and a place for sexy- but beautiful is something so much more powerful.

    I want someone with strong family values, someone that can share book recommendations, and doesn't mind that I make a horrible player 2 for any joint video game effort. Someone with a kind soul and a warm cup of hot chocolate. : )
     
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    Sounds lovely. She is going to be a lucky lady too :slight_smile:
     
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    I've been having dreams about an unnamed woman off and on for awhile now. Last night was the first time I clearly heard a name: Liz. Only thing is, I don't know anyone with that name.
     
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