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Gay or Bi?

Discussion in 'Sexual Orientation' started by Erotes, Aug 31, 2017.

  1. Erotes

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    I'll try to keep it short here. Lately I've been thinking about my sexual orientation and I'm wondering if I'd be considered gay or bi. I am a guy who likes other guys emotionally and physically. But when it comes to women I feel more physical feelings towards them. Like, I would kiss both guys and women but I wouldn't go below the waist for women. Does this mean I'm gay or bi?
     
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    Bisexuality doesn't necessarily mean that a person likes guys and girls equally. It just means that they like both.
     
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    So basically and emotionally you see people as people and not as gender specific individuals from the waist up but from the waist down you like the Dee and are disgusted by the Vee. Is this what you are trying to say?
    How does a pre op male to female transgender individual make you feel?
     
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    No one can answer your question - u have to answer this for yourself. Have some fun trying to discover what turns u on!

    Why won't u "go below the waist" for women?
     
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    Yeah, I see people as people and nothing other than that. Although, I prefer the Dee over the Vee.
     
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    Congratulations,you have a strong positive perception and deep respect for other human beings not as sexualized objects but as living breathing feeling individuals and a deep perception and understanding of your own individualized customized sexual self.
    Not many individuals ever achieve this level of Zen and you must certainly and rightfully be proud.
     
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    No need to label yourself, you like what you like and that's all that matters.
     
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    Homosexual but Biromantic? Kind of new terms for me that I just learned, but it seems to fit your situation. That's what I am as well :slight_smile:
     
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    You find both genders attractive therefore you're bi.