Hello there, I'm 33 years old and I'm definitely questioning my sexuality. I'm married with kids. My husband is okay with this and says he would never judge me. But I am not ready to talk to him yet about this. When he brings it up I change the subject. I definitely know I like women but I'm scared of the next step. I have been attracted to women for years but haven't gone further than a few kisses.
Hi there, and welcome to Empty Closets. You have come to the right place to become comfortable and to figure out what the next best steps are. There are several members who have been in similar situations, and I'm sure you'll be able to exchange experiences and gains some insights. Welcome aboard.
Hi to you too. I am a bit older(50s) and have a similar issue. Am a newbie to EC,so exploring. I haven 't told anyone yet that I am bi as am pretty scared,as I am in a long term hetero relationship with 3 lovely kids. Only recentntly have I agreed with myself about my sexuality,and want to explore with a woman. As my relationship isn't so secure because i don't want intimacy,coming out is a scary thought,and i don't want to hurt my partner or children. Hope that makes sense. EC seems a safe place to me. X
I am in the same situation. I just came out to my husband today, so we have not figured out all the details such as separating and co parenting. Luckily he is very supportive, but I know i have hurt him.
I'm so sorry to hear of you and your husband separating. That's really sad. I hope you're able to iron out your issues. ---------- Post added 23rd Jul 2016 at 07:31 AM ---------- Thanks to everyone for your support.