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What are you attracted to...?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by DrinkBudweiser, Jun 18, 2015.

  1. swagmaster

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    What does genderqueer mean exactly?
     
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    Okay when we talk about what's attracting I'm pretty sure the VAST MAJORITY of people consider personality the or one of the most important things. So its not even something to really talk about. Everyone pretty much agrees personality is important. So what really is something to talk about is superficial characteristics of a person that makes them attractive to you.
     
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    A girl who is kind but sassy when needed. A pretty face, not overly skinny though(I want something to hug). I would love someone who rocks a slightly punky look(not overly though)
     
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    If anyone here likes outsides, would not be afraid to sleep under starry sky, loves rainy days, is ambitious and wouldn't mind watching horror movies pm me xD
     
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    It relates to gender identity. Quoting Wikipedia, it's a "catch-all category for gender identities that are not exclusively masculine or feminine—identities which are thus outside of the gender binary and cisnormativity". I'm probably genderfluid (fluctuating gender identities), but I haven't decided that yet.

    Doesn't really have much to do with my attraction to others, though. :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I like the tomboy/ soft butch type. A girl in jeans and a t-shirt can be quite hot. i prefer the natural look and i love mesmerizing eyes (preferably blue).
    but in the end i am just looking for that certain something i find captivating...
     
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    Womyn who can talk about different things, widely read, intelligent, cute smile always a winner, and someone who gives a damn about social justice.
     
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    Other transgender females and females... sexually though, I prefer both.
     
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    I prefer feminine girls.
     
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    Brown eyes, dark hair, nice eyebrows. I like girls who can look flawless in makeup one day and just as beautiful in sweatpants and no makeup the next. An interest in gaming is a must. A nice wit, and pretty smart is also a must.
     
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    Masculine Man, even hairy, bear-type, or muscular and clean.

    I like strong smells XP

    I like dominant people but with actually caring and sensible personalities - people who aren't too selfish or needy
     
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    Humans ~.^

    Well, some things

    -Tomboys
    -Well-built but not bulky men in white shirts
    -Androgyny (though not always)
    -Thinner, not muscly guys can be cute
    ( -Aaaabs; Beeeewbs (lol))

    -Mature men

    well, yeah, lots of cute things ^_^ ~
     
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    I like guys who are tall. I am short like 5'2 and I would so be attracted to guys who are taller than me. I would like a guy if he has a similar personality as mine or opposite but is still a good person. Someone who is a bit nerdy like me and my main favorite is guys with glasses. if you are a guy and has glasses I would defiantly be crushing on you.
     
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    Pretty much somewhere between femme and butch but not the extreme of either. I'm not really attracted to super feminine girls or super butch girls. I am more attracted to brunettes or dark haired girls. Not a lot of makeup and nice teeth, I love a nice smile.
     
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    For me it's more about posture and mood than specific physical characteristics.
    I'm into people who dress the way they want and are proudd and confident of themselves. I'm attracted to people with a glint in their eyes, if you catch my drift.
     
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    So its either nonimportant or flexible for you?
     
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    sweet and cute people that like holding hands and cuddling and being nice to people!
     
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    Well, I'm really picky about guys. I tend to like more feminine guys, and I have to have more of a deep emotional connection with a guy before I feel romantic about him. Can you even be demiromantic for a specific gender? Because that's probably what's going on here.

    Girls, though? Girls are great. Any girl. As long as she's a nice person. I really have no preferences. I do have a little thing for girls with short hair, though.

    And I guess I have a specific preference genderqueer and gender nonconforming people over anything else. I guess I just like having someone who really gets the whole genderqueer thing, and isn't afraid to challenge the gender binary.

    Typing this out actually helped me sort out my thoughts, wow.
     
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    I'm attractive to muscle men who are happy to treat me like a lady. I know that is odd