the most annoying types of straight guys?

The type that goes through several stages of acceptance when you come out to him:
1. The denial stage
2. The "I'm totally cool with it bro" stage, usually justifying the last few gay slurs
3. The "But you don't act gay" stage
4. The flippant yet semi-insulting homophobic joke, usually revolving around a stereotype, just to show you how down with it he is.
5. Confirming that you weren't offended by the joke, and that nothing is awkward between you.
6. Acceptance

 

Well this didn't take long to go sour...

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But surely this would be better handled by just talking about annoying assholes in general? I don't see how a person's sexuality really anything to do with how shitty they treat a person. Either they do or they don't. If they're a sexist, then concentrate on the sexism. If they're ignorant, then concentrate on the ignorance. Don't stick a 'straight' in front of it just because.

 

Can't we make fun of straight men...admiringly?

 

Straight people in general that say "Oh you're gay? Thats cool, I know someone who's gay and they're really nice"
Well good for them.

Also guys that find out you're gay and think you automatically fancy them and every other guy in existence.
Like seriously, don't flatter yourself.

 

I see where you are coming from. But no. In a perfect world, where everyone is equal, the "straight" part wouldn't be necessary. Yes, it would be great if we could just talk about assholes in general. But, there is a special kind of sexism directed at LGBT+ people. There is a special kind of ignorance affecting LGBT+ people. Societal structures aside, on an individual level, who are the ones being ignorant and sexist towards LGBT+ people? Hetero-cis people.
I think everyone understands that it's not the case with every single hetero-cis person. There are hetero-cis allies. I think most of our friends are hetero-cis. However, if you're constantly affected by ignorance and sexism from people who are hetero-cis, you might need to just let your feelings out. You might need to generalize. Using a LGBT+ safe space might be the only place you're able to do that. What is the harm?


I apologize if I came off too hard in my initial post. I'm just so tired right now.

 

The ones who just love to give me mixed signals haha.

Oh. Let's not forget about ''nice guys'' who later complain on the internet about being stuck in the friendzone.

 

All straight boys are annoying...

 

The ones who call women bitches, and think women belong in the kitchen.

 

I don't like misogynists, whether they're straight or not.

 

The cocky ones and the ones who think they can turn a lesbian straight.

 

This thread is as good as any of the others.

Straight guys I find annoying ... several types.

The kind who are immediately dismissive of guys who aren't walking sports statistics machines.
The kind who are immediately dismissive of guys who speak and write better than they do.
The kind who use the term MILF. I can't stand that expression.
The dumb and shallow kind who likes women who are as dumb and shallow as he is.
The kind who cycles from one abusive girlfriend or wife right to another and never learns because he has to have "it" at all costs.

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Yes. These guys are annoying and are also outright ignoramuses.

 

Just a few annoying straight girl habits:
Flirting with me to get me to buy her a drink
'Do you think I'm attractive?' (you can't win here - whatever you say is wrong)
Assuming you must be into them
Getting awkwardly touchy-feely

 

I think it's kind of cute when straight girls get touchy feely.. but it also sucks because you know you can't have them!

 

Yeah - I have a lot of touchy feely straight friends that it's fine. But there's one or two that get REEAAALLY touchy-feely and then it's awkward. Mind you - I'm a socially awkward person so it may just be me.

 

The ones that are attracted to women.

 

The ones who are entitled.
The ones who are arrogant.
The ones who talk, but rarely listen.
The ones who expect you to listen, but never talk.
The ones who would lie, steal, or hurt you.
The ones who bail on or ditch you, usually for ridiculous reasons.
The ones who never offer to pull their weight or pay their debts.
The ones who are sexist, racist, or show disrespect to others, without valid reasons.
The ones who are just, all around, manipulative or hurtful.

I'm so glad the LGBT community is above this, as they have achieved supreme perfection, and could NEVER be any of the above. EVER. That heterosexuality makes you a terrible person, and should be avoided, for it is a perversion upon good moral standards and flawless logic.

 

The ones who wont sleep with me, they're unforgivable.

 

How could I forget that?!

Yes, that is a hideous crime!

 

You tell them! :badgrin: