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What Turns You OFF?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by MisterTinkles, Apr 18, 2015.

  1. Kaiser

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    I'm kind of amused at seeing "bad/poor hygiene" listed, a lot.

    There isn't some epidemic of no-bathing going on, is there?
     
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    Smoking. I could see the cutest guy in the world but if he lights up I immediately switch off!
     
  3. MindvsHeart

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    What turns me off the most would be....liars, selfish and rude people. Oh and narrow-minded assholes.

    What would turn you off of a date?
    As I said before, I can't stand rude or selfish people. You gotta have some manners (e.g. including table manners, public transportation etiquette, how you treat staff or management anywhere) or I will school your ass - and I don't mean in a kinky way. I mean I will call you out and exchange some colorful words that will make your grandma cry. Also I do not stand for snobbiness/condescending attitudes, pompous pricks or general assholes.

    Also, Pickiness - I don't know, it's just a pet peeve of mine that I can't stand picky eaters. If someone gives me food then I'm gonna frickin' eat it and be grateful that someone made me food.

    What would turn you off of a bf or gf?
    Pretty much all the things listed above and...not getting along with my family. Like you don't have to LOVE my family but at least make an effort to get along with them.

    What would someone else do that would make you say "screw this I'm outta here", in a relationship of any kind?
    Top reasons I leave a relationship would have to be for.....infidelity, constant lying (I can't stand liars), betrayal of any kind, crossing boundaries e.g. I'm ace and if my SO keeps pushing to have sex and decides to make a move WHEN I clearly said no from the beginning than someone's getting their ass kicked out of my life, general negativity - I can't stand negative people. It's too toxic, and....breaching of privacy. Like I understand insecurity - I'm pretty insecure myself - but I will never EVER go through someones phone or through their facebook, or emails EVER. And if someone ever does that to me, that's an instant Game Over, Nice Knowing You (but not really) and Peace Out.
     
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    Personality turn-offs would be ignorance, sleeping around/being a player (Yes, I'm very old-fashioned), and disrespect.

    Physical turn-offs would be (For men) hair anywhere but the head or dreadlocks, and (for women) being waaay too skinny or having painted-on eyebrows.
     
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    Its cliche but yah I'd have to agree. Back in high school therr was this person who.. was always unclean... and he smelled, had greasy hair and an unhealthy look to him, just being close to him honestly made me feel uncomfortable and disgusted. His personality was really not appealing either. I really cant be around people who dont care about themselves, let alone be intimate with them

    Other things I dont like;

    Oldness
    boobs
    Rudeness
    arrogance
    Apathy
    religion
    traditional values
    people who dislike cats
    aliens
     
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    Being called "Daddy" will take me from 60 to 0 in 2 seconds. That's what my children call me. It reeks of incest and unresolved father issues. No. No, and no.
     
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    That reminded me this fun Menage a 3 script. :grin:

    Usually people whom so full of themselves, people who are unkind to animals, who are rude to others faith or lack of it, drug addicts/alcoholics, racist people doesn't go well with me. You know usual disclaimer for me.
     
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    The flip side is true for me. When somebody asks me to call them daddy it gets creepy and throws me out of the experience. I can't call somebody daddy without thinking of my own father.
     
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    Don't like long hair on guys.
     
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    Rudeness.

    Being mean or disrespectful to other people. If you're mean to our server at a restaurant, that's a big red flag and we probably won't have a second date.

    Too many tattoos. Tattoos on fingers (huge turnoff for me) or hands.

    Treating me like I'm dumb or a sex object instead of a real person. (Some guys are really bad with that. It's like they can't have a real conversation with you.)

    Constantly complaining, talking about people behind their backs, and drama in general. I could be completely attracted to someone but if they're a drama queen I'm out.
     
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    I second that (!)
     
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    lol ill be honest my thing for older guys has caused me to love the term daddy and in no way does it make me think of my father actually. When I around my real dad i don't get uncomfortable thinking that I would call some guy daddy and yes saw what you want but it's sexy to me.
     
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    Everybody's turned off by things like rudeness, bad hygiene, etc.

    But among things that are a bit more specific:

    I don't like people who interrupt me. I just can't put up with it. It frustrates me so much.

    I'm turned off by chauvinism SO much. As soon as you start ranting about women and stuff like that, I'm tuned out.
     
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    Over-confidence, being judgemental of people, close mindedness, bad hygiene / bad breath, making lots of sexual jokes.
     
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    bad hygiene, acting stupid, being ignorant, and overall just being a dick
     
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    In any partner, it would "turn me off"
    -if they gossiped about others
    -disrespectful
    -ignored me
    -alcohol/drugs/sex addicts
    -anyone "bad"
     
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  18. Gandee

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    I think I've committed a few turn offs
    except the bad hygiene.

    ---------- Post added 25th Apr 2015 at 11:36 PM ----------

    Very very guilty of this.
     
  19. stocking

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    Guilty ?:confused: