Hello and merry xmas to everybody! this is my 1st post here! I am a 28 yo and considered very handsome guy. I am straight. I like women, flirting, love, having sex with them etc! I am not attracted by males and i don't want to have sexual relations with the vast majority with them. I met quite few gays in my age and i feel disgusted with the idea to have sex with them BUT! i like few types of older mature men. In my life i was sexually attracted by very few older men(less than five) and i have sexual fantasies with them. Most of them, i met them in the gyms i was going to. With just one i had a small beautiful experience... He is gay cause he was flirting me in the gym but i didn't response( i was 16 yo then). However we were lost cause i stopped gym for few years. 2 years later when i was almost 19 and i had a car i found him in his work. he had a very small coffee shop. he was alone. He closed few windows, we started touching each other. We went behind the bar he sat in a chair i gave him a blowjob and i liked it(*hug*).Unfortunately on other times when i was visiting him he was rejecting me when i was asking for sex or blowjob...:tears: Finally we got lost ( few years later he sold his coffee shop, he is retired so cant find him. However, i have sexual fantasies with certain types of older men. I watch gay older porn where in the majority of older men i see i dont like them. In gay porn sites am looking for some certain types of older men i like... I love women but i wish i would have a secret sexual relations or experiences with specific type of older men. I am thinking of this almost everyday. Something very difficult for me to happen.. What am I (considering that i love women, when i see males i am not attracted except very few older men?
I'd say that from what you've written here you're about a 1 on the Kinsey scale. This means that you're attracted to women, but very occasionally you are also attracted to men. Think of it like being very weakly bisexual. You can identify as "heterosexual" or "heterosexual with exceptions" or "bisexual" if you want a label for it.
how can you actually meet a guy and after 2 years find him and give him a bj when you are disgusted by the idea generally o,o makes no sense at all....
itisthe fear: i come from a very small country.. I am for sure str8 but I said that i am attracted by very few mature men
This would be my initial thought too, based on the fact you find some men sexually attractive, however... If you want to identify as Straight, then that's fine! As far as I'm concerned, labels only exist to suit you. Use whatever feels like it most represents you.
sounds bi to me to, but you get to pick your own labels, or no labels at all. but as far as the older men, that is quite normal. We all have our "types," that is, the type of men that we find attractive. some guys like mature men, some like young guys, some like hairy men, others like smooth, hairless guys, and everything in between. so having a "type" doesn't tell you much, other than that you are attracted to men. few of us are attracted to ALL men, there usually is some preferences. and liking women as much as you do, well that sounds like the best indicator that you like both women and men.
thank you very much for your helpful responses. I feel closer to quitealright views. i am heterosexual with exceptions on kinsley's scale' level 1. Unfortunately i had only one small experience with one of the few mature men i liked in my life to experience and explore it better..
just curious about one thing. why does it say "banned" on your mini-profile beside your post? since you are here, you're obviously not banned. and in any case, I am very glad that you are here with us, and not really banned
uhm, gosh, I don't. feeling kind of dumb now, like it's intuitively obvious, but I'm the only one missing the point. :confused2: and that wouldn't be all that unusual.
Don't worry, I don't think it's obvious either. I'm guessing he was banned shortly after these posts for some other infraction. In this case the posts remain, they're not deleted, but the member is banned from making any more.
Well most people aren't fully gay or fully straight. So, you can still identify as straight even though obviously you have had attractions to a few guys.