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Discussion in 'Gender Identity and Expression' started by Kasey, Dec 11, 2014.

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  1. Chef

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    i love heels, i find that you have to walk more heel to toe in them, instead of walking like a guy.
     
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    Fact. They also straighten out my walk instead of having my feet bow out.
     
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    I guess I don't have to worry much since I already walk that way. I even sat "like a girl" back in high school. It's nice how I can remember stuff and not feel bothered by the bullies in my memories anymore.
     
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    I walk like that too. And I sit like a girl sometimes(it's uncomfortable after a few minutes), and no fucks given.
     
    #3184 BrookeVL, Jan 28, 2017
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    All of my teachers use my name now, and two of them use he pronouns! I'm so happy right now.(!)
     
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    Blazer!
     
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    i posted it yeterday but i have my appointment for the script on friday.
     
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    I wish you luck gurl!!!! Here's to finally being the women we are on the outside.:beer:

    I am working on coming out to my family. I'm still going to make my appointment and at least get blockers for now, but my therapist doesn't come back until the beginning of March. I really want her input on my letter before I give it to my parents and siblings.....though I'm considering giving it out before then anyway...Hum, decisions. I must reflect on this.

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    Scratch that, I'm not waiting. I emailed the appointment request form to the Women's Center!!!!!
     
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    yeah, i have to tell my family as well. not looking forward to this at all.
     
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    i always sat like a girl, never a guy. only thing bugging me today is why does blouses have to have pockets on some, right on the bust. god that bugs me. have a great silk blouse in royal blue, and what you know, pockets right on the boobs
     
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    To me it makes about as much sense as butt pockets on blue jeans. They are uncomfortable and make you an easier target for pick pockets.
     
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    thats right. but lucky for me i never use a mens wallet only a womans and thats in my purse!!!!
    lets see someone take it from me.
     
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    I love purses, but I don't see myself carrying one....I hate having to keep track of bags and shit. lol
     
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    Just had a moment of "damn, I pass really well as male" when I glanced in the mirror.
     
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    That's always a good feeling.
     
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    My brother had a friend over, and when he introduced us to each other he said "this is my brother Vince". The guy just fist pumped me and said "yo dawg". It was a really great feeling. I have never been so happy and it is wonderful when family knows. I am still nervous about coming out to my parents though. I remember almost coming out to my mother when I was 15... the look on her face is what worried me then..

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    Also, that's great hawk! Happy for you man.
     
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    I've always been able to touch my elbows behind my back. I just tried and I can't do it anymore. Maybe because my shoulders have gotten bigger?
     
    #3197 Rickystarr, Jan 28, 2017
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    I don't know bro.. maybe? I have some pretty broad shoulders though and I can do it. Most likely it always varies?
     
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    Idk I could do it forever until recently. And it was easy before, now impossible. I suppose I could also just be really tight from working out all the time.
     
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    That could do it. Do you do warm ups and cool downs along with working out? Those should help loosen and relax muscles
     
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