So, I guess I should clarify what I mean by that question before I get a lot of angry responses >< So, if you're gay, have you met someone of the opposite sex that you think that (despite them being the opposite gender) they could be "the one"? I don't mean that you're bi-/pan- etc. sexual, I mean that you're "totally" gay and was/is attracted to that person? Stories please! :icon_bigg
I've always considered myself to be attracted to girls but there is this guy that got me thinking about my sexuality. I've always been in love with girls although I don't think I've actually put an official stamp on my sexuality whether I am a lesbian or bi-sexual. (Although there a certain threads and even on my profile where I identify as a gay girl just because it's easier to describe myself to that label) Anyways long story short, yes I currently have a guy whom I've developed an admiration to a point its most likely a crush. He's smart, attractive, nice, athletic, out-going, and he dresses nicely. He have all these great attributes that I like about a person which led me to rethink about my sexuality. Also I think the reason a part of me also likes him is because I crave for a partner. Still being in the closet and wanting to date, I know it would be easier to be with him since there isn't stigma against it unlike a same-sex relationship. Sadly, right now I'm a bit desperate for a companion so I guessed that's why my brain is willing to consider this particular guy... It's really confusing if you ask me.
Oh, yes, I found my "one exception" and I fell madly in love with him, and admitting that it confused the hell out of me, is an understatement. When I first realized that I had feelings for women, I was about 17/18ish. I mean, I knew from an early age but I did not know what my feelings meant. At the time, I was pretty much leaning towards gay, but I was so afraid to be gay that I decided to give him a chance and something clicked. And so now, I currently identify as bisexual even though I place myself at a 5 on the Kinsey scale. I wouldn't say that he turned me straight, instead he opened up my mind a bit and I realized that I could fall in love with him. Although, I will admit that I have not been able to fall in love with another man, which confuses me even more.
I think I was in love with one guy, and I had crushes on men in the past, but I just liked their personalities, they all seemed so similar to me, close to soul, you know. Well, they were handsome, cute, etc. but I would never imagine going further than kissing or cuddling with them. I don't think that 'very hot' guy can turn me straight, because a guy that I was madly in love with was really handsome, but I was into his personality, not his body. I was more into his girlfriend, she was really beautiful... sorry, if now I look like an asshole. I can really separate love and sex.
yes my best friend we know so much about each other I find her really pretty but nothing would ever happen it'd be like doing it to my sister to weird for my liking . girls dont do allot for me THANK GOD
At one point in my life, I was convinced that I only liked women, mostly just to avoid the hate of being bisexual and the other part was me trying to refuse my feelings towards men. I've only been in a relationship with one guy and I wouldn't exactly call it a relationship. Every other guy turned out to be a friend or they ended up bullying me for being so overweight. I couldn't even so much as voice my opinion about liking a guy, or his guy friends would tease him and my chance was over before it started. Eventually, I said f*ck it and liked who I liked.
Yes, I have had crushes on girls in the past...which is making me confused as hell as to whether I'm bi or not...
Today as I type this I can think of loads of guys I like "like that" but women, I cant honestly think of any. Every so often you see somebody truly gorgeous and you think, "yes I could probably have sex with her" - whether I'd enjoy I'd have to try it first
If I met someone who turned me straight do you really think I would still be calling myself a lesbian:rolle: I got a question what's up with bisexual people thinking everyone is bisexual like them There's a guy trying to turn me straight and failing at it
No, But girls try to turn me... nope sorry not gonna happen i know what i like and you dont have that...
Well, I'd be lying if there weren't a few girls I liked or came close to having this with. But I always responded better to men on a sexual and personal level. But I've never really been with a woman, so I kind of wonder if my experiences have been tainted, so to speak, with my experiences trying to date women. I still remember how ashamed and dirty I felt wanting to have sex with my ex-girlfriend and knowing she would never want it.
Yeah but they were trans male so I don't think it would count, because it would be really mean to refer to that person as a female!
No way honey *snaps finger* ain't nobody gonna turn me straight. *flips hair* *walks away fabulously*
No there hasn't been any guys that have caught my attention or that I've been interested in and I doubt there will be. I have not been drawn to guys the way I have been with women... not even close.
Almost nobody is 100% gay, or 100% straight. It's highly possible you find someone of the opposite sex who you may think is "the one". I myself have found someone like that, but I know it just wouldn't work out because I'm not sexually attracted to her.
Ronaldo. He's a boy with fantastic style (suits and the like), he's incredibly intelligent, has long hair, perfect features. Well, he's legitimately perfect. I'm not sure if I'm attracted to him, but I do get these excited, girly feelings when I see him. However, the one time I thought about him in THAT way, well I just couldn't. Made me begin to think I could be heteroromantic, depending on the person. But really, I feel girls are the only ones for me)