You ever get those days where you feel kinda straight and then other days where you feel 100% gay? And then once in a while you're just down with anything. Or are you just 50/50 all the time?
Wait...what? Before I accepted my sexuality or whatnot, yes, their was days when I felt lesbian and days where I felt straight. It was awkward...but I kinda liked it.
Well I mean I fully accept my bisexuality but I go back and forth. Some days guys make me tick. Other days it's girls.
I guess it all comes down to each individual. For me personally, I get annoyed with who I am and what I want.. Its either vanilla or chocolate ice-cream. There's nothing wrong with having both, but at the same time? it kinda ruins the intention of the original flavor or further improves, depending on how you look at it. At the end of the day its either chocolate or vanilla.
I see what you're saying in that sometimes I feel myself sway more to one side than the other. But I am conscious of fact that I do like both, just at that moment, I want more than another.
Mmm, growing up I favoured women, then I favoured men and women, and then for a while now I favoured men. Although within the past 3 days I had a resurgence towards women, but I have trouble seeing myself married to a woman. Idk why there was a slow shift, and there was small hints growing up about being bi, but I distinctely remember liking women more, and the more I transitioned the more it shifted towards guys.
Totally feel you! There are periods where I have intense attractions to guys and periods where I have intense attractions to girls. I never know how long these periods will last before they shift. I think people tend to label it as "fluid" because it's constantly changing, but I wouldn't worry about sticking a name to it.
I was born bi into a family and part of the country where I would have a freakin' hard time if anyone knew (and the whole god sending you to hell thing was a bummer too), so I was pretty straight for a long time, though I was with girls now and then too (amazing how so many straight guys don't have a problem with that, especially when they are involved :icon_wink). Now that I have been on my own for a while, I actually feel I have no attraction to men at all, and I only find other women attractive. So I'm not really sure what the hell I am these days...a straight up lesbian who finally made it out of the closet mentally, or a bi who's just going through a phase. I just take it one day at a time.
I generally stay pretty darn gay most of the time (for instance, right now) and have little to no interest in guys as of this moment. However, I have been known to notice a guy every now and then (such as this summer when I went on the cruise with hella fine guys and hella nah girls).
Yes, I suppose, but I think it's more of an environmental thing. Like if there's a guy I'm interested I'll lean more hetero for a bit because I focus on him specifically, or vice versa.
Yeah it definitely feel that way in terms if romantic attraction. There's almost never a day where I'm not focused on one or the other. However, sexually, I'm pretty much 50/50 all the time.
I'm personally gay, but my bisexual friend says this to me all the time. That some days she's really gay, others straight.
I'm mostly always a man's man. I like girls in a sexual way on very rare occasions. I think of myself as 97% gay.