Does this dream mean I'm bi?

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  1. ChromeNerd

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    A few days ago I dreamt that I kissed a guy and enjoyed it. We didn't really do anything more than that. I thought he was attractive and I actually wanted to kiss him. I didn't actually think about having sex with him and it wasn't a french-kiss.

    That dream was really random because my sex drive had been very low lately. I've also been paranoid about being bi for a while. I sometimes even think that I'm just some crazy straight girl who convinced herself that she's gay or bi. I really hope I'm not because I'm already out to some people.
     
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    I get that feeling a lot too! Try not to worry about that; sexuality is very fluid.

    I can't help much with the dream interpretation. Maybe you do like men, maybe you don't. It's not neccessarily a bad thing, though. It could be romantic?
     
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    I think it just suggests you think about your sexuality a lot in your waking life and it makes you somewhat anxious.
     
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    Yes. I think she should take it easy.
     
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    No, it doesn't. That's not how dreams work.
     
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    If you think about the dream, was it enjoyable? Does it make you feel good? That might hint you're attracted to men.
    Dreams don't have to mean anything. For example, I recently had a dream I was dating a male colleague, but I only like women. My dream might have been a result of constantly wondering if I'm bi even though I know I'm not.
     
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    Dreams don't usually mean what you think they mean. I wouldn't take it as fact.
     
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    Dreams are just dreams.
    Today I dreamed that my friends and I were chased by a crazy lesbian sect (no joke xD)
    In my case it has to do with the fact that I overobsess over my sexuality (again).
     
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    Nope, not nessesarily, it depends though. Was this the only dream like this you've had?
     
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    I wouldn't take dreams to seriously all the time , I once dreamed I was having sex with a guy ,and enjoying the hell out of it . When I woke up , I was still lesbian and not into men .
    Hunny your worrying to much about this
     
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    Figures in dreams could be interpreted as part of oneself.
    Dream interpretation is individual, its what it means to the person who had the dreams.

    A man in a dream might be interpreted as the own active side, being kissed by it the embracing of a more active and outgoing principle.

    Even having sex might be interpreted as embracing creativity... or longing for creativity...

    You might have a look at this:
    Am I Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual, or Transgender?

    I'd say take your time... and look out for a feeling of joy...

    (*hug*)(*hug*)
     
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