I consider myself bi/pansexual, but I decided to come out as a lesbian because I don't want to have anything with the opposite sex even though I also believe myself to be panromantic. Is that a bad choice? I feel as if I'm hiding an important fact about myself.
I think you should just do whatever you think is right. You could even come out as bi/pansexual but say you're more interested or attracted to one gender? It's up to you, just an idea.
But what's the difference between that and a straight girl? Can't you just blatantly tell them that you're just not interested? I feel that you shouldn't have to apologize for coming out however you want to. They should apologize for assuming that you're interested in them, which is clearly not the case. Don't ever apologize for your orientation .
Okay... Maybe it wouldn't be so bad doing that. It's just that I feel very uncomfortable with guys interested in me and I don't even know why since I never had any bad experience with guys before.
Hi there! As it was mentioned above, it really comes down to, as to how you feel. The only caution I would have is to decide on a label that could take away of how you actually feel. If you are not attracted to guys that's fine, but if there is a part of you that could be attracted to guys as well, you want to make sure that how identify includes that. If you are not interested in somebody, that's all you need to say.