Biggest turn on?

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  1. theinvisiblekat

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    This can be a physical trait or a character trait but I was wondering what turn ons were for different people? For me it's confidence. Like extreme confidence that borders on cockiness. What about yall?
     
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    Eyes, voice and a stubble as in physical appearances.
     
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    Being a person I have a crush on.
     
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    Just anyone I find attractive tbh.
     
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    Let me Squirtle all over them Jigglypuffs...

    Just kidding... :lol:

    I'd have to say intelligence. A shoulder to cry on is also a must.
     
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    Fun.

    That's all I want from a partner really, is someone fun.
     
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    Yeah, this. Although fun isn't all I want in a partner, but it's probably the biggest thing.
     
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    A confident girl , also eyes and lips a girls beautiful hair and of course boobies (!)
     
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    If I am to not be snarky, though:

    Physically - large (or alternatively, broad), bulky, hairy men (long hair also preferred).

    Personality-wise - "nerdy badass" and "sarcastic bastard" are the two "types" I'd say I'm most attracted to (men or women). I'm weird like that. :lol:
     
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    Intelligent, but not arrogant, kind and caring, but not a pushover. I don't really like cocky or really demure people at all (in the sense of wanting to date them). Physically? A nice back (usually meaning a nice physique overall, but I really like good backs) and a nice face are pretty good.
     
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    Passion for something, like if someone can get carried away talking about what absolutely fascinates her.
     
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    Intelligence, sincerity and maturity, not acting like a spoiled child. Also when I'm into someone, I like them being attentive and a little flirty and trying to make eye contact.
     
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    Expressive eyes and wit.
     
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    Looks: Glasses, Small chest, Dark hair
    Personality: Artistic/writer, Independent (not clingy), Understanding
     
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    I like it when someone goes out of their way to show that they're interested in you. That's definitely a HUGE turn on.

    As for physical traits, I'm usually attracted to dark hair and a thin/non-muscular body-type.
     
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    Intelligence, passion, sensitivity
     
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    To be open, not being uncertain in the bedroom, at all. I respect if my partner is uncertain, but if they don't open up about their sexuality and wants in the long run, the sex suffers a lot for me.
    Confidence as well, knowing what you want.

    That, combined with a caring but "badboy/girl" attitude, is hot (being selfish in the bed gets one kicked out).
    And! A hot "lets-fuck" smile.
     
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    Whispering in my ear.. *Faints*
     
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    Intelligence, good taste in music, a bit of a dark sense of humour, deep voice and call me weird but I get turned on with guys who have freckles and moles.
    Kinda like this one:
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    I think the biggest turn on for me is when a girl looks at me like I'm the most beautiful girl in the world. I'm also a sucker for girls who are big dorks. GIRLS WHO WEAR GLASSES, OMG.