Sometimes that's all I really want. A long, meaningful hug. Forget about kissing, forget about sex. I honestly have not intimately hugged someone in years, been so long can't even remember if I have at all. I just want someone I can hold in my arms and lay my head on their shoulder who will do the same back feel like they genuinely care about me and my well being. In this life it seems like that's asking for too much.
If you lived in Canada, I would give you a big hug. As you could guess, I'm some-what the teddy bear of my school so I give out teddy bear hugs to everyone hahaha. But now, I'll just send you a internet hug. *hugs*
Thank you for the intention of hugs. If only I could feel them. I'm not quite desperate enough yet to get one of those pillows with the arms.
I totally get where you're coming from. When I get that way, I usually say to one of my friends that I need a good hug. They are always willing to oblige.
Maybe it's because you never really asked for one. And I'm not talking about asking with words. I know this isn't what you're looking for, but you have my cyber hug too (*hug*)
Oh my gosh I am the same way, I just want to a man to hug and cuddle with me, I don't care about sex or anything else. I think we all crave human contact to a certain degree, some of us more than others. :/ I'm so pathetic and desperate, I go on the gay apps and usually weird guys out by asking them quickly if they like to hug and cuddle, cause that's an absolute necessity. I'd like to someone to do spooning (gosh that always sounds so dirty to me even though it's really something quite sweet:dry with, of course I want to be the little spoon, I want someone to hold me, I'm so pathetic...:tears: But I'm sending you lots of virtual hugs! (*hug*)
A hug would be nice, but a proper back massage would be even better. Oh how I fantasize with my lonely self.
I know exactly how you feel!!! Life has been beating me up lately! And the person I love lives 813 miles away from me I just need a lasting, nice hug myself. *hugs*