Fetishes.

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  1. Argentwing

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    I thought that was only me hehe. I like feet among other things too.

    And as for a fetish for fetishes: philiophilia? :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes:
     
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    I think I'm the only person in the world with a fetish they hate. I could be considered a chubby chaser, but I hate it because frankly, obesity is unhealthy. I'm not trying to discriminate against overweight/obese people, especially those who can't control their weight. But I just hate the idea of making someone fatter and therefore even more unhealthy and susceptible to things like heart attacks just because my penis likes it.

    As for anything else, I don't really have a fetish or certain turn-ons. Maybe a bit of a more masculine appearance? Maybe? But all in all, if my body isn't being touched, something's more likely to be a turn-off. So intelligence might not be a turn-on, but the lack thereof is certainly a turn-off.
     
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    Too many to count. Among the innocent ones are:
    Girly boys
    Eurasian people (Norwegians in particular)
    Slow, romantic sex
    Businesswear

    Now for the naughty stuff:
    Rimming!!!! (Biggest fetish by far)
    Big, soft butts
    small breasts
    Crossdressing
     
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    I have a foot fetish. Other than that, I love twinks, and pretty much every white, skinny, boyish looking guy I see, he turns my head. Me and my boyfriend play that game every time we go out and whoever gets their head turned most wins.
     
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    Boys in dresses, oh god. I don't know why, I just love it when guys wear dresses. Especially twinks. Twinks in dresses.

    I also love guys with glasses, no clue why. If a guy looks good in glasses, I find it arousing.
     
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    You'd love me and mah spectactles then :wink:

    i too have a boys-in-dresses fetish...mmmmmmmmmmm
     
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    They're just so lovely, don't you think?
     
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    smooth skin .
    tight bums .
    fit guys in tight leather trousers .
    expensive aftershave .
     
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    Guys with muscles really gets me hard......:icon_bigg
     
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    Bondage
    Leather
    Whips
    Being tied up :icon_redf
    Role playing
    Algolagnia
    Erotic asphyxiation
    Sadomasochism (I like giving and receiving)

    Yup...I think I am done :rolle:
     
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    It's embarrassing to say this is me as well, and I also hate it, so much though that when I was younger, I just wanted to get rid of the feeling entirely, the feeling of being "turned on." It got to the point where I was just sick of it because whenever I would hear or see something that suggested it, my mind would go down a track of thoughts that would turn me on...and so over a few months I tried to get rid of it. Some would say I'm crazy, but let's just say it involved a lot of pinching and a shocker pen. :confused:

    It's really the only thing I truly hate about myself. It's also why I sympathize with people who do have taboo turn-ons, or at least am indifferent to them, because I just wish there was a way to change it to at least a turn-on involving someone else...it's also one of the reasons why I didn't think being gay was such a big deal...in fact, I considered it a step up from all the crap that I have.

    A few years ago, I was indifferent to LGBT, but I guess I did have some sort of resentment for the community because I thought if I had to hide my sexual deviance, then why was it so hard to just find a woman and hide yours? My naivety and soreness at the time...

    Well, as for other fetishes. I've found they all stem from the idea that you are becoming something or something is happening to you without your consent, or you are losing control.

    For me:

    Gaining weight
    Transforming
    Being tied up
    Furries
    ...

    Fetishes caused me to completely separate the feeling of lust from the feeling of love, so until I was relatively old, maybe 17, I didn't understand that people could feel the same turn-ons I feel, but with a person, and that could be a precursor to a relationship, or a result of a relationship. The thing is, over those few months where I trained myself "out of them" so to speak (they will never be completely gone), I still had a sex drive and certain events led me to rethinking the question of my "sexuality," where it involved another gender. Without the fetishes, I slowly began to realize my sexuality involving other people. That's how I ended up here.

    I haven't actually been fully turned on by any of those fetishes since April, when before then I was turned on exclusively by them...I look at some stuff I used to look at, and it just doesn't have the same effect anymore. In fact, it doesn't have nearly the same effect.

    And honestly? Yes, I know whatever...it's a part of your "sexuality" and fantasy is fantasy and embrace what you are, whatever. I accept that I have this sexuality, but lets just say I turned the volume down to the lowest possible volume without it being completely off, and I just feel better about myself now.
     
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    I'm definitely a sapioromantic but I wouldn't really identify as a sapiosexual.

    I'm not quite sure where I draw the line between preferences and fetishes, but all I do know is that when I imagine my ideal boyfriend the consistent features are:

    Short hair
    Sense of humour
    Romantic
    Charming

    As for body parts, I guess I'd have to say:

    Muscly legs
    Penis average when hard but below average when soft
    Hair in the right places
    Tight ass

    Let all that say about me what it will!
     
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    I've always had a fetish for dying in the arms of the person I love... and the last thing I would see before departing are his eyes...

    I guess big arms would also be something I like cuz hugs feel comfortable.
     
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    Hmm alright then.

    My fetishes are:

    Short hair (See Charlie Day. Sorta like him)
    Glasses
    On average skinny with a little bit of a gut
    A big ass (Not hip-hop big, but big)
    Average sized penis (Giant ones are a turn off.)
    A thick hispanic accent. (I love this in females more-so)
    Roleplay (This one is debatable. It depends on the type of Roleplay)
    A flip flopping personality. (Dominant and Submissive depending on the mood)
    A versatile preference (This sorta ties in to the Dominant & Submissive thing)
    Eyebrows (I like bushy eyebrows, it's weird)
    Either shaven everywhere, or shaven most everywhere (An unshaved crotch is just as much of a turn-on as a shaved one.)
    Hairy legs (Contradicts the last one, but sometimes it just looks good.)
    Feet (Mostly women, unless the man has some hot feet <3)
    Lips and tongue (Nothing beats a good french kiss <3)
    Licking (Self explanatory)
    Twinks (In a general sense)

    Damn.. Looking at that now, I really do have a dirty mind :confused:
     
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    I think I might have a maid fetish as well.
     
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    I like young, effeminate guys. Like, a lot younger than I am. Like, 8 years younger.

    Check my side bar and do the math. :confused:
     
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    I love masculine guys :stuck_out_tongue_closed_eyes: And a guy with a sexy deep voice, not deep deep like morgan freeman, but like a young comforting deep voice :wink:

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    Sort of like if you relish relish. :grin: