Have you ever taken a nudie shot on your cellphone for your significant other?

No, once you send a pic it's out there forever.

 

I did when I was younger, but I regret it now and I make a point of not giving anything like that to anyone I'm dating. Maybe in marriage or long-term, serious cohabitation, but there's always that chance that they'll do something with it they shouldn't... or try to blackmail you.

 

I have an obsessive fear that no matter what I do, somehow it will get online

so no for me but I certainly don't judge others for doing so

Foxface

 

Never sent one, but did receive one b/c I had someone trying to get me into a fwb situation and it's how they "sweetened the deal".

 

Nope. I'm to scared it would get out for everyone to see it. Another factor is that I'm under 18, so I wouldn't do it for two reasons.

 

Nope. My SO is already aware of my body and it'd be pointless anyway considering the dysphoria I'd probably get and overall disgust.

Snapchat photos of me lip synching to the Backstreet Boys are way better pictures than nudes anyway.

 

No and I probably never will because of my dysphoria.

 

Sex doesn't have to feel special as an act for us to have the same emotional response to sleeping with the one you love and the excitement behind the act. Just like going to the movies isn't a special event, but it becomes special once you care for the people that you are going with. Exact same thing.


As for the question, yes. I send pictures often to my significant other and he does that same. Its something that we enjoy and we are a bit kinky when it comes to a lot of sexual stuff. We take pictures together and alone, and we send them to each other fairly often even if we also see each other just as often.

I'm not really worried about my pictures leaking simply because in those situations you have two people trusting each other with pictures, so the chances of it happening are pretty slim.

 

I did and I kind of regret it. But that's all in the past now. I was young, I was stupid, I was a freshmen in college, which is why I was stupid.

 

:eusa_eh: Say what?

 

Nope, and I wouldn't expect him to either.

 

No, I haven't.

 

Yikes. This blew up. I love how only my "controversial" posts get replies. Yippee........

Anyways, no matter what you think, I am just trying to voice my concerns. I believe that a lot of people do this. I know a lot of people are on hookup sites and are online, generally. It may not be on here, but a lot of people do it. As someone who did send nude pics, I know that it happens.

Why I became so irritated was because I feel judged. In all the crazy things someone can do, this is the most problematic? For real, that blows my mind. I think this thread would blow up if it was anonymous. For the future, please don't assume anything about either side. And please, don't judge.

 

Plenty of times. I'm practically a porn star these days.

EDIT: I really don't think it's a big deal either.

 

I don't think it's either you won't do it... or you're a porn star. I am most definitely not happy I have done it. I'd much rather do charity work, clean up poop at work, or eat a cake...but it happened. I mean, what else can I say? I don't want to be a porn star. I am not happy with it. However, it happened. When I say what I say, I think it's because I don't believe in the black and white. I followed *some* judgement and hope that it won't blow up in my face, but I can't really change anything. Heck, an ex could eventually come to my place of work and say "He's such a fuck face and sucks at sex."

See, when you bring up things like "As long as you don't mind" or mention a potential employer, then that's where I get upset.

In terms of your last part, you are right. We aren't everyone. However, don't just assume that it's only crazy/stupid hormonal teenager idiot sluts who do this. Or, if so, then I guess I must be one.

 

I wouldn't say never.. Not anything identifiable to be honest; w/o context. . 0---

The opportunity for things like this to come back and effect people later on is there, however it depends on where you live and what you've done/made an effort to do.

There have been quite a few lawyers who have done porn/nudes, stripping, etc and made it however there have also been people like that including those in education, politics, who have lost their job and reputation over issues revolving around sexuality and expression.

Is it right? Absolutely not if I can say anything however that doesn't change the minds of the people who are dishing out your paycheck.

Inalienable rights > Safety > Economics > Security > Choice/Freedom/Equality > Etc

That's how it is in my books. If you can't pay the bills, feed yourself and survive then your freedoms aren't going to mean much in the real world.

Change demands sacrifice, and that can mean economic sacrifice; worst of all being poverty and below not being able to feed yourself or less severe, being deprived of opportunities because of in individual expression.

Life :/