Terrified Of Penises!

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by BoiGeorge, Jan 23, 2013.

  1. OMGWTFBBQ

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    l don't have that reaction to the actual penis. it's ugly but straight women feel the same way lol. l believe the term would be you could have a male ..."friend"...lol.

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    l agree, l don't get the extreme reaction.

    Do you find the actual vagina gross? Just curious, l have yet to feel this way about either genitalia lol.
     
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    Just gonna swoop in to say that
    A penis does not equal a man
    A vagina does not equal a woman

    RAPHAEL AWAY! :grin: *Flies away*
     
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    never seen one but still the whole idea creeps me out
     
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    ^:confused:
    WHAT :lol:

    Ummm... I guess I'm a minority because I don't really find either "lower feature" to be attractive? They're just body parts... If I find a woman to be attractive THEN I will be attracted to her vagina.

    To be honest, I'm more of a bosom kinda girl. I can look at those without liking a girl's personality...
    :grin:
     
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    l was pretty much the same. The girls l've been with, l liked their parts. but l wasn't like oogling at them.

    But then around 25 or so, l guess l actually started to become turned on by random lady parts in porn, etc :X
     
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    You're me in the future oh wise sage! :confused:
     
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    Everybody's different but I LOOVVEE lady parts! I'm absolutely adoring them, all the types and all the styles, adoring everything about them.

    And, penises, well.. I guess I don't mind them / I don't mind touching them or seeing them either, I see penises more as a means to get to a result, and well that includes mine too.
     
  8. i know many attractive men but from the neck up
    if they came at me naked id probably vom in their face lol.
    im not terrified just i dont find them attractive to the point of probably wanting to vom :lol:
    its just not what im attracted too.

    omg zaio! now i see it :lol:
     
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    I'm not exactly terrified of a penis because I have kids, so I have been intimate with men in my past. It was mainly to please my ex-boyfriend and to convince myself that I was not gay. And since I've learned/still learning to accept who I am, I no longer have relationships with men. Because I truly believe that I was forcing myself to like men.

    I think you're biromantic lesbian, but it'll be hard to have a successful relationship with a man. Unless it's an open relationship, so that way he can find someone who likes penises. I think an emotional relationship can be very satisfying, but then again what about your sexual needs?
     
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    Yeah, I'm certainly not offend. I try to act like the courteous indifferent person. "Oh there fine, they're just not for me." But in reality, I am literally vaginaphobic....... It just has fluids and things happening, and I just cant deal.

    I was iffy, I was suspious of what dark deeds were going on down there as a child. And the time can when I had to find out, but I had no idea. I Had No Idea!

    And it haunts me to this day. D:
     
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