I have recently learnt I am genderfluid and I have two "versions" of me. I am James when I feel like a boy and when I feel like a girl my name is Charni. My personality is exactly the same except I am a bit more sensative as Charni and the only way to distinguish between wether I am James or Charni is when I am Charni I hold my hands together in front of my stomach. On EC I will have the writng under my namesaying if I am James or Charni. Thanks for listening! I just wanted to get that out there.
So being genderfluid is a real possibility for you? When you say 'strange', can you describe what's happening in your mind?
I think I am genderfluid yes. Um not really. It's like I have two people in me and they both want control. That is the best way to describe it I think.
But the thing is all that changes is my gender. I only have one personality. Inside I know it isn't split personality.
I am so glad my girlfriend is pansexual. It's funny. She doesn't care about gender and I can't make up my mind which one I want to be.
Um it varies. Sometimes I stay the same for a whole day, but sometimes I can change after a few hours. I will stay the same for a while.
Damn! Doesn't help the boys' cause against the girls over on "Boys vs. Girls"! Play for our team when it matters! Disloyal fiend!
Sometimes I think that game does more harm then good on a site like this. I know that I used to avoid it because I didn't want to have to vote for the guys. Now that I vote for the girls it feels good, but I feel kind of like a liar or traitor at time. I've heard another user expressing uncertainty on what side to vote for as well, and I think it makes them feel a bit uncomfortable. *shrug*
