What was your first gay experience like?

Does lifting girl's skirts to annoy the hell out of them and pinching their ass as a kid count as coming out? :lol:

 

Am I the only one who doesn't like the idea of "gay experience"? You wouldn't ask about a straight person's first straight experience.

But anyway, I haven't kissed, had sex, or had a boyfriend yet. But I'm not ugly, so it won't be all that long until I do, hopefully. :lol:

 

All my friends swear absolutely blind that me and one of my best friends were cuddled up in my bed when we had a movie night once...

I know for a fact we were on the same single bed, fully clothed mind you, but I don't remember any cuddling involved. But they swear it happened. So I guess it would be that?

 

My first was when I was about 12/13, while visiting my sister & her husband. A girl from her neighborhood was hanging out with me while sis & b-i-l were at work and we discovered sis & hubbie's collection of lesbian porn mags. Liked them so much we decided to act out each and every one of our favorite pictures. Swiftly moved from posing and acting to exploring and enjoying. Became a favorite way to pass the time whenever I visited my sister over the next few years. Too bad for me I never continued those explorations elsewhere - would have saved me decades of thoroughly dissatisfying hetero sex & relationships!

---------- Post added 31st Aug 2013 at 06:21 PM ----------

Umm, hate to disagree, but it is in fact quite common - when groups of straight girls or women get together, swapping stories of first experiences is almost something of a bonding ritual. Think 'locker-room talk' is pretty common among the guys too, but can't speak from experience, so that's just hearsay.

 

Then "on the road" aspect of this has a hotness to it. The hitchhiker aspect of this has some danger to it. I have never given anyone I didn't know I ride, nor have I accepted one. I actually have given one, but it was in a very legitimate and safe context.

First experience with the same gender - don't remember which year of high school, but around the middle. It was a childhood friend that went way back. He went to another high school and we had no friends in common. He began smoking and doing more adult stuff early. He made the move, in the trees behind his house while having a smoke. It was repeated. For some reason, it didn't really register, because it was with a friend and the approach was casual. We're still friends, though I don't see him all that often.

What did register is what I consider the real first experience. This same friend got around and I didn't. Toward the end of senior year, I got off early from school on a Friday. He said we should go to a place to swim, and was up front that there was an older guy he met there, in his mid-30s, who he had smoked pot with and described the sex that he had at the guy's apartment. The guy was there. We wound up going to his apartment. It wasn't a threesome, but the guy proceeded to have sex with both of us. It was the first time I climaxed. The guy was kind of tall, thin, dark wavy haired, slightly tanned, and had that kind of Abe Lincoln-like closely trimmed beard. When I see guys who look like that, with a t-shirt and a little bit of hair coming out of the top of their t-shirts and some hair on their upper arms, I think of the experience. Also when I smell pot, which they smoked for a while beforehand. In addition to the stress of going off the college because I didn't know how tough it might be, I had to deal with this issue which sort of happened, thinking that guys his age wouldn't have even been interested in guys our age. My friend and I knew what we were doing that day. It was pretty intense.

 

A male friend of mine was sleeping over at my house. We slept next to each other on the floor. After a while we started, well, touching each other down there. I enjoyed the experience. It was one of the earliest indications that I was bisexual.

 

My ex girlfriend was always super grabby before we even went out. In band, it was just kind of common practice for girls to grab each other's butts and boobs. However, I scizzored with her once (with pants on) in a hallway at school as a "joke". The choir teacher walked out of his class and looked horrified. It was funny, but I don't know if that counts.

My first true "gay experience" was one again with her. She said, "let's pretend to make out to make my boyfriend jealous" and we did. She essentially moaned, touched me everywhere and was about one millimeter away from my lips. We went on for like two minutes of this. That experience is what made me realize I was fully gay.

 

Does inappropriate staring in locker rooms when I was too young to have any concept of sexuality count? If not, then it's a tossup between, "I'll show you mine if you show me yours" with a primary school friend, and a lot of saucy experimentation with my cousin, I'm not sure which came first. We almost reached third base but I was still too young to be really into it. Which I regret when looking back on it.

 

19 in college, in the locker room after martial arts practice. Myself and several other guys from the club, including the instructor all showered together. This other guy, who showered around the same time we did, kept hitting on me (meaning more or less almost masturbating in front of me, throwing looks at me,etc.). Being the somewhat clueless person I was, it took several weeks for me to notice that his behavior was unusual and a couple more to figure out that he was hitting on me (this after he actually came up to me after the shower one day and said he'd be waiting outside for me - I was confused at first and left by a different route and it was about two hours later the light bulb went on). After that, the next time we showered after practice I waited until everyone else had left and then...took him up on his offer

It felt good, but was also kind of awkward since I didn't really know what to do and a locker room toilet stall isn't exactly conducive to a relaxed learning process.

Todd

 

Well, I was 5...(i know i know) and my little red headed friend from a few doors down was from one of those crazy religious families, he gave me my first orgasm orally, his dad gave me the second one orally...strangely enough, he used to video tape me and his son doing eachother off manually...orally...and i don't recall too much else, perhaps im blocking it out?

---------- Post added 5th Nov 2013 at 09:31 PM ----------

ya know, perhaps i have this distorted male figure attraction, i physically look like im about 14 because i keep myself that way...and im attracted to other guys who look like that, it more than likely has to do with my distortion of male attraction from certain experiences like that one...(there were many every year by SEVERAL different older men till my current age 26) i have really long blonde hair, blue eyes, im 6'1 tall and my waist size is 28inch i weigh 115 lbs, but im proportioned, and kinda toned. The epitomy of being a teenager forever. i think. also my lovers look exactly like i do, either slightly underaged or not, its quite weird

 

Neither of us knew how to kiss. So we kind of just put our lips together and mashed them together. We both got excited in our crotch...and we learned to kiss together. It was VERY awkward...but we both enjoyed it nonetheless so we kept on going.

 

It was nice, while it lasted

 

Made out with a boy in the school A/V room. It was just kissing...mostly. Okay, there was some petting too.

 

I had oral sex with my best friend in the locker room in high school.lol

 

I went to an all boys camp in New Hampshire. I must’ve been around 14-15. There was a boy there of whom no one had any doubts as to his orientation. He was really nice, though. A year older than me. I would hang out with him a lot.
Part of the camp was you could on hiking trips, canoeing trips and overnight trips.
Well, on one of the hiking overnight trips, we were to share a tent. He must’ve had an accurate gaydar, because he asked a few personal questions and one thing led to another. I didn’t loose my butt virginity, but we did go quite far.
I sort of repressed the memory until I felt sure about my sexuality. It’s a nice memory, though. I love the outdoors.

 

When I was 12 best friend came to my house and we showed our dicks to eachother and kissed

 

So like in octobrr I started to really like this guy and then him and I talked, finding out he was gay, I asked him out and we saw a movie then every day at school I hugged him for the longest time and I asked one of his friends if hed be okay with me kissing hin and then she asked him. And he felt uncomfortable with me rushing and then he dumped me. Pretty depressing.

 

Perhaps this was child hormones gone rampant or something, but a boy friend of mine and I played a game in which I had to chase him around the room and try to pin him down and make out with him. It was between the ages of five to eight, I'm not quite so sure.

The thing is, he seems perfectly heterosexual. While I seem to have been gay since birth.

 

Well I'm only 15, so really nothing has happened yet. However, I did come out pretty early, it's not like I'm going to be in denial in 15 years time.

 

My college roommate and I were drunk and playing some game or other. I made a joking insult and he replied, "Well, you can just suck my dick! I laughed, and he said "I'm serious. You know you want to." I had a very major crush on him and he knew it. I got up and went to the bathroom, since he was a lot more drunk than I was and I wasn't really sure what I should do. When I came back, he had it out. So I did it. He passed out in the middle of it, which was a disappointment. Even worse, he didn't acknowledge it in any way for 2 weeks and then basically dismissed it.