What do you find attractive?

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  1. blankpaper

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    Confidence.
     
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    I'd like to add that for some reason, I can't help but only imagine myself in a relationship with guys who have some really strange quirks. Guys with a really high energy level, kinda demented senses of humour. I like guys who are outspoken also.
     
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    I always find these threads kind of strange. How the hell does anyone know what they're looking for?I guess it's easier if you've been in a relationship.

    Myself, I don't have any idea what I'm looking for.
     
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    Intellect, depth, caring, sincere, loyal. Into music is a plus. Gives a good hug. hehe.

    For looks I tend to gravitate towards 'dark and mysterious'. I like arms and eyes the most and find myself attracted to androgyny a lot also.
     
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    I love for a man to be there for me when I really need him. He should have dark hair, be as tall as me, and be able to handle the crap that happens in my life.
     
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    I've been on this thing with black hair lately, don't know why, just thinks it looks sexy on some guys
     
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    Pale, Nerdy, Cute, Fit (not exactly muscular), and Confident

    Of course none of these are necessary, but they are definitely a bonus :grin:
     
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    -Maturity
    -Stability
    -Someone who wants to be with me.
     
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    Muscles.
    Darker hair.
    Be a joker.
    EDUCATED, don't like dumb guys.
    Masculine, but like showing me a lot of affection.
    Likes it when I'm affectionate, cuz I am very.
     
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    Blue eyes are usually an instant winner for me. A guy has to be pretty attractive in other features for me to fall for a man with brown eyes.

    Of course, I tend to have emotional feelings for guys I wouldn't necessarily find attractive.
     
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    Hm... never been in a relationship before, so i guess I'm not sure. I guess someone who's deep, talks a lot (but not A LOT) and is okay with just hanging out and existing.

    And maybe someone who can get into stupid debates about world problems with me.

    I used to think id only like someone really smart and sarcastic, etc. but being mature and real is way more important to me.
     
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    Redheads!!!

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    i'm not trying to make it naughty but i really love guys in boxers,i'm also a boxer freak that i have lots of them.It can make any fit guy sexy.. :grin:
     
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    Holy shit thank you! I know lol guys in briefs are hot as hell also.
     
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    -I dont really have a physical type, just cute and sexy. Well built and fit, im not really fit but i want my man fit..haha.
    -I dont care about the hair color, just no red heads. Not too long hair
    -eyes i dont care, but mostly blue
    -good hygiene in general.
    -nice smile
    -FUNNY!!!
    -nice, caring, and respectful
    -Smart, im not expecting a genius, but i dont want someone stupid.
    -Mature, hate when guys are immature and laugh at the stupidest things
    -I have a white guy fetish hahah.. but i dont mind other kinds... :wink:
    and thats it for now