Update (good news) and venting (meh)... again.

Discussion in 'Coming Out Advice' started by sisyphusstone, Feb 6, 2009.

  1. sisyphusstone

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2008
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Well it's been a while since I wrote. Good stuff has happened since then, for example, I've come out to more people (I'm officially out to 9 people now). And so far this year has been really nice. Most of things are in order.

    And,

    how does it feel to attract someone that you're actually attracted to??? :icon_sad: (<--- venting part).
     
  2. Ben

    Ben
    Full Member

    Joined:
    Jul 8, 2008
    Messages:
    1,301
    Likes Received:
    0
    :grin: Congrats! It feels great, doesn't it? Hopefully your year will keep going well.

    You mean they like you and you like them back? :slight_smile: I think that's a good thing, right?
     
  3. sisyphusstone

    Regular Member

    Joined:
    Aug 18, 2008
    Messages:
    46
    Likes Received:
    0
    Gender:
    Male
    Sexual Orientation:
    Gay
    Out Status:
    Some people
    Yes! It feels great! :icon_bigg So far, it's been really nice.

    I mean... when I feel attracted to someone but for some reason it's difficult to attract him too... I'm used to attract guys who don't attract me. :dry: I wish I could find a mid-point or something.
     
  4. Greggers

    Full Member

    Joined:
    Dec 10, 2008
    Messages:
    2,698
    Likes Received:
    0
    Location:
    BC, Canada
    You cant really do much more than be yourself. Make sure they know who the real you is, and make sure they know your looking. Other than that i guess just let the cards fall as they may :slight_smile: If they are attracted to you, then they are attracted to you. If not the only thing you can do is be someone your not to attract them, and thats never a good thing.