Your feelings toward men?

"Yeah, I guess that's a common theme here on this forum, all trying to learn more about ourselves. I totally understand your frustration. I see you've labeled yourself gay here, did you decide the attraction to women is negligible enough to identify that way, or are you just kind of trying it out?"



I guess I look at myself and while the Kinsey Scale is somewhat outdated, I peg myself as at least a 4-5 on it (mostly homosexual). Labels aren't everything, but if I were to look at my past 10 years or so, I'd say my attraction definitely runs closer to homosexuality than to heterosexuality. In the end, I think (and hope) that I'll have the confidence to find and accept love regardless of gender or labels, but, for now, I think gay is a fairly accurate label.

Best wishes with your reflection! I think the common piece of advice that most people seem to be echoing here - "don't think too much about it" - is true. Thinking too much often gets in the way of action, and missing out on taking action in life closes doors you may not want closed.