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What are you thinking?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Mirko, Feb 28, 2017.

  1. JayeJJimenez

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    My family's on my case about not doing enough when I'm already maxed out and trying to recover from trauma and what do they do?? Haul on more trauma and insecurities on me. Now I'm left feeling like a failure of a human being and like all I do is never enough and just living my life is not enough for anyone but me.
     
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    At the end of the day that is all that matters, disregard what they say.
     
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    I'm gonna start wearing a subtle pride pin. Almost feels like I'm doing something wrong / shameful, but it's kind of exciting in a way. Scary though, even though I'm out.
     
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    I’m not getting up in 5 hours I don’t care what time I have to be in the car for the drive.
     
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    I'm just thinking about what I need to do for the rest of the week.
     
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    People often compliment me on my resilience, but I kind of wish someone would acknowledge that I'm hurting and how that's OK. That I don't have it all together
     
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    Hugs
     
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    Just set up an account on ####### then found out it's £17 per week. F--k that I'd rather be lonely :fearful:
     
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    I had a similar reaction to a site for guys.
     
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    Hoping now-Tropical Storm Ian would keep moving on out of here!
     
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    I wanna do more with my weekends, but I've no idea what...it's just a vague and annoying feeling.
     
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    Tired of caring
     
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    New niece or nephew is going to be born any day now!
     
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    Currently thinking that I really don't want to have my in-laws up for the long weekend.
     
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    Ohh, that bad?
     
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    I imagined myself as a guy who is a CEO of a big hotel. If only imagination can give me such euphoria, then the real thing must feel even more amazing. I should be doing more gender affirming things. I do need a haircut anyway.
     
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    I mean, they're not terrible. But I just saw them last month, for one, and for two (I don't know if my tolerance has severely diminished, or if it's them) my MIL (in particular) says a lot of really stupid stuff. And when I say stupid, I mean "I'm not a bigot, but I say ultra-bigoted things" stupid. I think it's a bit of both (them being worse and my ability to suffer b.s. lessening) but I'm always just exhausted by the time the visit is over.
     
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    Ohh, well good luck :hugging:
     
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    I really like these steel cut oats, mmmm
     
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    I don't wanna be me anymore.