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What are you thinking?

Discussion in 'Chit Chat' started by Mirko, Feb 28, 2017.

  1. Sheila Anne

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    New...sorta....to being transgender. New to the process that I have finally decided is a must! New to loving and embracing who I really am! Thankful that I still have time to complete my journey and become the woman that I was truly meant to be. I am learning to love me and embrace all these feelings rather than stuffing them deep down into the darkest reaches of my soul. Now, I have to plan. Plan to do alot of firsts and to begin my journey.

    More importantly, I am looking to meet some friendly people who can give me advice, lead me, teach me all that I need to know about make up, how to do my nails properly, how to do my hair (wig) in different styles. I have so much to learn so that I may pass, as much as possible. Do I care if I am some hot number in heels? No. It's just important that I embrace who I am and live a life as the real me, however I look. How I feel is most important. Don't get me wrong...make up can help alot, but I don't care if I am wholly passable. I just want to be the real me.
     
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    I wish there were more time in a day. More time to do my homework, so I wouldn't fall behind on it, because of dysphoria and not feeling well. I loose the motivation to do anything. I can't handle more stress.
     
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    Society has progressed past the need for Facebook.
     
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    I hope things will calm down for you again. (*hug*)
     
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    Thank you. Sending hugs to you too.
     
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    I have so much to do and zero motivation to do any of it, so I won’t bother doing anything. No amount of sleep seems to be enough and there is nothing in the world that would get me up unless I’ve gotten at least 8 hours sleep.
     
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    Honestly same here. If it's less than 8 hours of sleep, then I will be tired entire day. Sending hugs.
     
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    In fairness, 8 hours is the recommended amount. I also don't function well on much less than 8 hours and anything less than 7 is a non-starter for me. I would love to be one of these people who can stay up past midnight and still get up early for work, but my early start is usually 5am.
     
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    Graduation tomorrow! I'm somewhat excited
     
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    I ordered a package from Amazon. The tracking said it was delivered 3 days ago but no package. The last time this happened a pair of joy-cons were lef outside for a weekend in the summer. They were fine, but given the rain now, the pack of disposable tie dye masks won’t be as lucky if they are left out.
     
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    Congratulations. :slight_smile:
     
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    Thank you.

    The ceremony was OK, however the night out that followed was a bit well...eventful. I went to the toilet only to somehow miss a big argument meanwhile someone was accidentally outed.

    He was planning on coming out to the rest of the group anyway, he'd been asking me for advice on how to come out for a while but he didn't want it to come out in that way. Now he wants advice on how to come out to someone who was involved in the unrelated argument and likely didn't hear, since most of the group now knows anyway. That person stormed off after the argument and has been angrily ranting online. I think my friend should give him some time alone to calm down before he attempts coming out to him.
     
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    I’m getting annoyed with having to take my glasses off before I go in to a shop. If I wear a mask my glasses fog up and I’d rather be short sighted than only be able to see after I inhale.
     
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    if plastic is made from oil, and oil is made from fossils, then plastic dinosaurs are made from real dinosaurs
     
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    I think if I had to sum up my personality, it would be two people. There's the theatre nerd who's running around manically and her low-energy counterpart who'd sooner jump through hoops of fire rather than be the centre of attention.
     
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    Just thinking about how tired I am. I'm mentally drained.
     
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    I'm lonely, I want a bear boyfriend to my lil twink self...
     

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    Give it time mate, no need to rush into things.
     
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    I have a wedding to attend next month and nothing to wear. The last wedding I borrowed a dress from my sister but I hate dresses and a December wedding in my country is going to be cold and wet. I haven’t worn a dress in years and I’m not going to buy something I’ll only wear once. I was thinking a suit or jumpsuit but I’m not sure. Acceptable clothing I like shouldn’t be this hard.
     
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    I am thinking of buying a property in Spain...
    It's my dream